how can anyone be more selfish than my mother?!?! she almost kicked me out becuase she wanted me to talk to her about something that i didnt want to talk about. she is out of control and ever since my sister moved out she is on my case about being her best friend and telling her everything that goes on in my life!! when i do tell her about something she always blows it out of proportion. she wants me to tell her things and then she goes off and gets mad at me for what i did.

and for the bf issue. he is like the best thing in the world and i know that he would treat me right or whatever. but i am so scared of commitment that i dont want to be with him because ill hurt him. every single guy that i have opened up to has always let me down and im soo tired of being hurt all the time. there are a few guys that would do anything to be with me and i just cant let them in...everytime i get close to being with them or opening up i always find excuses to get out of it...like say that im talking to someone from out of town or say that i cant talk to them anymore cause i dont like them...but in reality i really care for them and want to be with them but i always end up hurting them!!!

i dont know what to do anymore. all of my energy has run out trying to find out what to do and i cant take it anymore. i have broken down so manytimes because of these issues and i cant seem to do anything to stop it...can someone please help me out!! im on the edge and i dont want to be.

damn..my moms lik that too but not to the extent of kicking me out!!..but I found a way that
she would actually be cool wit me having a boyfrend..I always [frum now on] tell her about the guy..so wen we're going out she doesn't B*tch at me for it..but you know,it also feels good to have admirers..but only if they look gud.lol i hav sum in highschool[ which i am about to enter!.yay!]
but they are ugly..yea, it sucks. And you know, life is too short to be anything but happy. My advice is to just be single and happy..if u already are, but dont worry about being in relationships your whole life.
go by my motto "hakuna matata".lol

From what I've read, your mom really loves you and cares about you. She probably doesn't mean to blow up, she just wants what's best for you. I think the best thing to do is talk to your mom about how you feel when she says things that hurt you.

About your boyfriend. It seems to me that your heart has been broken quite a few times. It's okay. Just make sure you realize that you don't need to rush into relationships. If you aren't ready to have another boyfriend, then don't worry about it. It's not your fault.

Good luck with everything!

-Shanny444