Nowadays most women prefer to stay single, not because they don’t want to be involved in a relationship but to gain unlimited freedom to their life. It gives them more power on decision making and hence being single, there won’t be anyone to subjugate on things that they do or plan in their lives.
Whatever they do it’s their own choice of doings. Most women see this as 'women power’. Being single gives women opportunities to strengthen their careers and be successful for a long term.
It is felt necessary for modern women to be self sufficient without needing support or help from the family or a husband.

Question:
Do you think this is a matter to be worried! But why!

Choices:
More women might follow the trend
Man might feel insecure with such woman who wants independence

 

so you can better understand the psychological aspects of rape.

ummmm, why?

you should read 'the book of fear' i think its called. or the new assertive woman.

something...

most times the victim is at least somewhat attractive though. a rapist wants to humiliate a girl who prbly doesn't deal with humiliation every day. that way its more empowering to rape a pretty girl instead of an ugly chick. come on...u have to agree that its usually the half decent looking girls that get raped? most times that is but not always. i never said it was always that case though

because they just want to humiliate them.

like 'haha, i decide who you have sex with, not you'

i agree that it is about over-powering another person and that all rapists should be castrated. but why would a rapist rape someone he wasn't attracted to even a lil bit?

rape is not about attractiveness. it's about sick fucks who were treated like crap as kids and now this is how they try to gain control and power, something they were deprived as children.

no one rapes because of desire for the person. it's for the desire to over-power someone completely.

seriously, i think all rapists should be castrated and have their penises removed without anethesia.

well, they're soldiers. if ur a soldier ur provoking someone, its like being a scapegoat though in that case. u personally aren't provoking it but by being a soldier ur taking the blame for provoking it. if u don't want murdered don't be a soldier.


apparently some guy somewhere really likes his older women then.

umm yes there are.

there are 80 year old women that get raped.

like what (some of) our soldiers do in iraq.

well yea it's ur fault a lil that u got murdered if u provoked it...u don't provoke someone and expect nothing in response. (of course i think murder is way over the top if ur mad at someone and omg i am totally against killing, lying, and cheating just so we're clear)

a man won't rape u if he has no desire at all. rape victims are never 45 yr. old 300 lb women. point made?

omfg. you're completely against your own kind.

ok, so is it a murder victims fault they got killed if they were pissing off their aggressor?

men don't rape for sex or because they desire someone. they rape for power and to humiliate.

some of it is her fault. she can't help that he husband is obviously sly filty creature for actually doing so but ii'm sure she could have helped prevent the situation. why else would her man go running after someone else?

and yes if a girl is dressed too sexy and gets raped i would consider it somewhat her fault but the dude shoulda at least had some kinda control over himself.

wow. so it's a woman's fault if her husband cheats on her.

why don't we just say it's a woman's fault she got raped because she was dressed too sexy and the man just couldn't help it.

ha, no i'm not that inconsiderate. of course widows can still raise their children alone. divorcees on the other hand should at least let the father still help raise them unless he's abusive and thats why they're divorced.

Marriage was originally nothing more than a business deal, I don't see why people shouldn't have the right to enter into or remove themselves from it.

Single women should not have kids? Does that include divorcees and widows?
That makes sense. "We're terribly sorry for your loss. Your husband was a wonderful person. He will be missed. ...Oh by the way: you can't raise those kids alone so the state's gonna take them from you. Bummer."

ok in an abusive situation that is beyond help yes...i guess i could see why a divorce would be ok. monkeying around though just means the woman better up her effort in the sexual department in my opinion.

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i hate these people who get married and then get divorced like 6 years later because 'they aren't happy'

exactly!!! this is what i mean about getting divorces. u can't expect it to always be a happy marriage. happy isn't realistic but it shouldn't be non-existent in a marriage either.


and yes it is quite a shocker that u want marital bliss because it seems like you have a very cold heart sometimes.

duh. i'm serious. if i could i'd go down to town hall and do it asap. but my bf is like let's wait a couple years. psh all i have to say is that mother effing ring better be on my finger this time next year.

i agree that divorce has gotten kind of ridiculous but that's because people marry for love and expect others to make them happy when in reality the only one who can make you happy is yourself.

still, though, a woman in an abusive relationship should get a divorce. or if her husband's monkeying around or vice versa.

i hate these people who get married and then get divorced like 6 years later because 'they aren't happy'

is it so shocking that i wish for marital bliss?

i don't believe in divorce. its the easy way out. marriage is for life and if it happens to be a bad marriage then too bad. a bad marriage will just have to be one of the many human mistakes that we make.

r u for cereal that ur getting married? this is an epic shocker to me if ur serious.

you know there are people who are married, have kids and get divorced...

it really isn't that simple or else it wouldn't keep happening.

i'm getting married. ^.^