my dad is extremly hesitant on letting me date. i know he trusts me but he refuses to give guys a chance. i have no intention of getting myself into a bad situation. shouldnt he trust my judgement? im going to be 16 in a few months.. what should i say to him

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You seriously need to not waste your time making rediculous posts that have no meaning to them...

I'll explain what I said. wehn you said the above and I countered with "so you should stop posting all together" I was saying all of your posts are ridiculus and have no meaning to them does it make sense now moron?

Yeah..... Idiot.

That really makes sense..?

So you should stop posting altogether then

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I thought "ur" was used to shorten typeing.

FREAK OUT......i was in a hurry... whats the problem with using it anyways...does it annoy U..ohh no i said U instead of you...omg whoops i just said oh my gosh in a shortened way...plzz dont call the YN POLICE ON ME...

You seriously need to not waste your time making rediculous posts that have no meaning to them...

See, dave knows the logic of my question.

I thought "ur" was used to shorten typeing. So why would you spell it "urr", why the extra r?

urr is not a word. Why do you continue to use it?

because they are urr parents u should respect and honor there wishes... but maybe u can use this as a way to hang out with him more.. invite him over for dinner with urr family or to watch a movie so that urr parents can see what a great guy he is.. then maybe they will be more likely to accept urr choices... try it....

I am going to be 18 in a few weeks. I have gotten many offers to date from all sorts of people. But i have never been on a date. I'm fine with it...

just dont tell them.

If you ask my parents, I haven't had a boyfriend since sixth grade. They don't need to know. I'm perfectly capable of handling myself and my relationships without their interference.

I started dating in sixth grade. My *rents care but they allow me to do what I like with my love life, with limits of course.

I dated when i was 14 and in my family the rule was 16 but i did it anyway and they didnt know but lately i havebeen having issues with my girls mom and i found out that my dad knew the whole time that i was dateing all you can really do in your postion is wait or talk to your dad about it some times there are reasons why you should date untill you are really ready i learned the hard way, there are positves about dateing "under the table"
1) By te time you can date you know what you want
ok so i cant think of alot but ill let you know when i do
by the way even if you have no intention on gettin into a bad stiuation you just might get there trust me ive dated alot and i have been in it all and it hurts and other ten your friends your father will be your true friend even if it dosnt seem like it hes there for you i am 16 and a father of a son, 2 months old and i care about him and want whats best and thats what your dad wants for you its not that he dosnt trust you its that he dosnt trust guys and i agree with that then agian he might but yeah.............

Tell your dad to stop being such a possessive prick and let you live your life. Your parents brought you into this world but they done own you.

What the hell...do not revive old threads.

my parents would not let me date till i was 16.. they trusted me it was the sex-high teenage boys they did not trust

Wait until you're sixteen, and then tell him that us Mormons, considered to be one of the strictest religions in the US, date at sixteen. See what he says to that.

My mom didn't want me to date until I was 16, but I got my first girlfriend when I was 15. She knew she could trust me not to get into any...sticky situations (that was a horrible, horrible pun), and she knew my girlfriend was a good girl. I didn't abuse that trust.

When you're a 15 year old girl in today's world, I can understand the father being a little hesitant. You can't judge inhibitions (or lack thereof) by a handshake.