My mom is such a manipulative person. She gets mad at me over NOTHING. She asks me stuff like what homework I have, and did I do my homework and yells at me over my homework even thouhg I have straight A's. Then she tells my dad a totally false story about what happened and I get in trouble. She always spends money on me and then when she starts acting crazy she goes "o well I spend ALL this money on you.." like that gives her the right to treat me like CRAP! I can't take her anymore, what should I do!

this isn't the best advice i can give you but scream back at her..n im not even sure if you still have this prob. but oh well..

hey, yeah my mom can be pretty manipulative too. I don't think it's as bad as your case but she does pull a reversal on me if I have a problem with her and makes it my fault. She yells at me for my bad grades but it's never occured to her that the reason why I struggle sometimes is because of her.

Today I had a mental breakdown after she was through with me, sometimes people just don't get it. They don't always see things from the other side no matter what they say. My mom had the guts to tell me she knows how hard it is to be in my situation but how could she possibly know what I have to go through because of her, social problems at school, manic depression, etc.

But anyway that's my rant. Unfortunatly I don't think there is any answer to your situation other than just to deal with it. It's hard, but really, you can't fight them, they're supporting you. So the best you can do is make plans to leave when you're 18. Have a good plan on where you're gonna live, get money, etc.

be happy that you have a mother that asks you about your homework and acctualy spends money on you.... a mother that has some form of worry about you. atleast you have a mother to complain about... mine is in lala land drinking herself to death and drugging herself so she doesnt even remember that she has an older daughter... and when she does calls her to tell her that she is a screw up.

Believe me, I've tried, my mom is just such a good liar. Even though I never lie to either of them my dad still dosen't believe me. Seriously, I can't stand my mom. She lost some of my really expensive clothes (that I just bought with my OWN money) and she blames me for it! Saying that I never gave it to her! She makes everything my FAULT!

Welcome to YN pinkrocker... i think that you should tell your dad your side of the story too. Try it, it might work.