Please I beg of you please I need advice! My parents are seperating after 27 years of marriage. My email is laura_stahli@yahoo.com. Please write me I am desperate.

My therapist tells me I'm brilliant at anaylzing my own problems, and my friends tell me I'm good to talk to, so if you need to talk someone, AIM me, or email me, I'm online from 9-11 atleast daily if not more. my email is toughgirl_15@hotmail.com

Well you could say I've been thru your situation twice, altho the marriage didn't last 27 years, it only lasted about 15. My parents got divorced, I live with my mom and she had a boyfriend for 3 years and then they split b/c of me. And yes,it's not really my fault I know, but it's rather hard to actually believe that. So... idk, if you want to talk to someone, as my signature says, AIM me, I'm probably on, and I'm probably bored.

I've been in a similar situation and know many friends who have a problem like yours. The best thing to do would be, like hub said, to remember that what is going in with your parents has no blame on you.

Couples with or without kids go through divorce, and just about the worst thing you can do now is blame yourself. Consequently, there probably isn't much you can do to stop what's happening, so try to get involved with other activities as well as reflecting on the situation often.

Well thank you any way. My dad is moving out this weekend.

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I've never been through something like that. But I do wish you the best.

I've never been down that road, but I'll tell you, just know that it's not your fault. That's probably one of the biggest problems with divorce for the children. Guilt. So, I really doubt if it was your fault.

I don't know. Maybe how to deal. I know I am not the only teen who has seperated parents. I am shocked and sorta depressed. I just need someone to talk to me who has been down this road if you know what I mean.

Advice for what?