okay,

My grandparents live in AR. and they have always looked down on me and my sisters.

My Aunt has 3 kids: and my grandparents think the world of them the girls are high school cheerleaders and all around perfect in thier eyes.

Me: I'm homeschooled and hate cheerleading i love baseball basketball. and they see me as a mistake, since i was born a girl and not a boy.

My whole life they have put me down, because im not like my cusins, I'm so tired of it but im not sure what to do.. I mean i dont want to be hurt-ful like them. But i want them to love me like the others or leave me alone.

Most people I talk to say "You Should Be Happy To Have Grandparents" but thats not true whrn they dont care about you. They have hurt my fellings so many times. I just wanna say I GIVE UP!

Please any help, (i don't want to sound needy,cry baby) but i need help

A lot of old people are like that, intolerant and strict about stereotypical roles. Just try to keep the peace with them as much as you can. Know that they're just living in times so different from their own, which can become very overwhelming for them.

After all, they won't be around all your life and you know that their insults are not true. Just try to make your memories with them positive ones. Be yourself, and if they're not going to support you, don't pay them much mind.

I know what you are going through. My Dad's parent's died before I was born and my Mom's Dad died before I was born. So I don't know what it's like to have a Grandpa. But my Mom's Mom was mean to my parents, brother's, sister's and myself.

My older sister is the oldest of all the grandchildren on my Mom's side of the family. My grandma didn't want my older sister calling her grandma, cause she said that it made her feel old. When my Uncle's and Aunt's had their children she didn't mind it. When they would come in for Christmas my Grandma would let my cousin's do stuff that she wouldn't let us do, like play with certan toy's and stuff like that.

Even though we are the only grandchildren she ever saw. She always put us down. I never really liked going over to her house, but I did and before leaving I always said I Love You Grandma. I did Love my Grandma, even though she treated us bad.

Maybe one day they'll realize what they've done and said. I always hoped that my Grandma did, if she did she never said anything to us about it.

Pray about it. Prayer changes things, believe me it does.

Tell your grandparents to fuck off.

Wow. I feel so sorry for you. Well know what don't listen to them. Your great. I love sports. I don't really like cheerleading either. It don't matter if you were born a girl and not a boy. I have you told your parents about this yet. Maybe you even have figured this out already, Well good luck.