Privileges at my Dads-Not really a curfew during the summer/on weekends, but I have to tell him what time I'll be home before hand.
-No set bedtime
-Doesn't really care what I wear (doesn't comment on it either)
-Doesn't care how long I'm on my cell phone.
-Drives me to my friends houses often.
Responsibilites at my dad's-Get straight A's
-Don't talk back (have attitude and what not)
-Have a conversation when he wants to talk
-Don't drink, do drugs, have sex
-Don't go out with boys
-Answer my cellphone no matter what (missing the call and immediately calling back is not acceptable)
-Tell who I'm going with, and where I'm going
Privileges at my mom's-Curfew is midnight during summer/on weekends.
-Doesn't call me every hour on the dot when I'm out
-Doesn't restrict what I wear, but comments on things she doesn't like.
-Doesn't care if I hang out with boys, as long as it's a group and they're my age.
Responsibilites at my mom's-Get straight A's
-Don't talk back (have an attitude and what not)
-Don't "act like she's stupid"
-Don't drink, do drugs, have sex, etc.
-Don't give my stepdad rude looks.
-Don't quit piano
-Go to church with her.
What if what you think is great, really is great, but it's not as great as something greater?