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Registered: January 03, 2005
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There is a lot of hatred in this board. Don't take forgranted the time you have with your loved ones, life is just too short.
"When you pull on that jersey, the name on the front is a hell of alot more important than the one on the back." Herb Brooks
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Registered: May 29, 2005
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MY mom is an As* HOLE  . She says I alwys want everything but i dont  .to runaway pack ur bags and when she leaves u home alone,run and hide somewhere big like the mall.I hope this works. juku  PS take bike or car if u have 1 |
Registered: February 27, 2003
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My advice is, what ever you do, do NOT run away. That will not solve a darn thing and it will only make it worse when you do get caught. What you need to do is gain your mom's respect, try talking to her calmly and reasonably. And like other people have said, you've only got like 3 years left until you can leave. Oh and reaperfalls.....get lost. Please. quote: Wow, you had a guy IN YOUR BED? I would beat you up with a clothes hanger as well.
Maybe a little harsh Celtic but yeah I've gotta agree with you there.
"I know of no safe repository of the ultimate power of society but the people. And if we think them not enlightened enough, the remedy is not to take power from them, but to inform them by education." Thomas Jefferson
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Registered: April 23, 2005
Posts: 457
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quote: I know that my profile says I'm 19, but in reality, I'm 14. For some reason my proile thinks I was born in '85 instead of '90.
I feel your pain. Mine says I'm a man. Don't run away. Or threaten suicide. My severely ****ed up cousin first threatened to runaway and no one took him seriously. Then he threatened suicide and he was in a hospital for two weeks.
Don't see Star Wars, it sucks the intelligence out of you
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Registered: May 15, 2005
Posts: 307
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at least u have a mom.
It is essential that justice be done, and it is equally vital that justice not be confused with revenge, for the two are wholly different. OSCAR ARIA
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Registered: May 07, 2005
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I HATE MY MOM TOO! DAM! SHE IS SO ****IN BOGUS TO ME BUT THATS THE WAY SHES GONNA GET IT! WELL SHE TOLD ME I COULDNT HAVE A BOYFRIEND SINCE THE LONGEST.BUT I MET THIS GUY AND I LOVED HIM AND STUFF SO WE WENT OUT BEHIND HER BACK AND STUFF BUT THE THING WAS THAT I WAS 16 AND HE WAS 18. SO THAT SHE STILL CONSIDERS UNDERAGED AND SOMEHOW SHE FOUND OUT THAT WE WERE TALKIN SO THEN SHE JUS SAID THAT IF SHED EVER FIND OUT SHED CALL THE COPS SO THEN I AINT PAY MUCH ATTENTION TO IT CUZ I NEVER THOUGH ANYTHING TO GO WRONG. BUT IT DID. SO THEN WHEN I WAS "MISSING" SHE CALLED HIS HOUSE (WE OBVIOUSELY WERENT SUPPOSE TO BE THERE) SO WE DIDNT ANSWER AND JUS RAN OUT THE HOUSE. THEN AFTER THAT I GOT DROPED OFF AT MY FRIENDS HOUSE TO ACT LIKE I WAS THERE. SO THEN I WENT HOME AND SAID THAT SHED ALL READY TALKED HIS DAD AND THAT THEY EVEN SENT A POLICE CAR TO GO LOOK FOR US AND HIS DADS A DETECTIVE. SO BOTH OF US GOT IN TROUBLE BUT NOT AS MUCH AS I DID. SHE WOULDNT EVEN LET ME GO OUTSIDE WHEN SHE KNOWS THAT ITS HER FAULT THAT SHE DIDNT KNOW. AND ITS JUS AS BAD WITH HER HERE AT HOME BUT WHAT CAN I DO?
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Registered: May 03, 2005
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I dislike my mom I mean she doesn't listen she two faced she is very unloving she only when I say only I mean only loves herself. she annoying I the way she looks and the way she talks and and the way she walks. she is a hipacryp. she is a very very very jealous person and she'll come up with conclusions that doesn't even make any sense. for example if you over sleep for a long *** and you're a girl then she'll say oh you're pregnant cause pregnant woman only over sleep their natural time. just now she was getting jealous of my dad because i always ask him to sign my papers or permission slips for field trips just now she asked why my name ain't on it it's suppose to have both of the parents/gaurdians of the house's name on it but that's not true. my mom is a ****ING *****
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Registered: August 14, 2004
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quote: Originally posted by Karategirl28:
Get the f*** over it, unless she does something seriously wrong (ex: abuse), you have no reason to hate your own mother. Hell my mom prolly would've done the same thing. Actually just f****** grow up and take responsibility for your own actions, running away isn't going to do a thing. You don't need advice on how to run away, you need it on how to grow up. Have you actually tried talking to your mom?
PS: learn to type / spell properly.
............sorry y'all, I am kind of pissed off.
can we just remember that building trust is important, after all eventually I was allowed to spend some time in the bed. But I'm a good guy 
"So others may die" - USAF Intel Targeteer Motto (607th AIS)
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Registered: April 30, 2005
Posts: 2
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quote: Originally posted by WhyMe:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Rissa:
my mom is a ***** My boyfriend was in my bed and she caught him there, called the cops on him, and now forbids me to have ANYTHING TO DO WITH HIM! He doesnt go to my school... so its hell.
now...i wrote her a note saying im lesbian and that my boyF was just stayin the nite... and she beleived it... but still forbids me to see him.
--i got so stressed so i packed my bags and called my friend and was about to leave (runaway) but my mom caught me. Mom said "if u runaway.. we WILL find u and the cops will be involved" ....
so theyd sue my friend for takin in a runaway. i cant get caught and if i do... then ill just runaway again. ive tried to runaway millions of times.
mainly cuz my mom has to have control of EVERY aspect of my life...from my hair to my shoes. and from the monthlys to pit deoderant. I am a rebel w/a nack for adventure and i cant be myself with my mom holding me down.
if anyone has advice on how to runaway without being CAUGHT plleeeezz share with me. pleez.
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Registered: April 30, 2005
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quote: Originally posted by Rissa:
my mom is a ***** My boyfriend was in my bed and she caught him there, called the cops on him, and now forbids me to have ANYTHING TO DO WITH HIM! He doesnt go to my school... so its hell.
now...i wrote her a note saying im lesbian and that my boyF was just stayin the nite... and she beleived it... but still forbids me to see him.
--i got so stressed so i packed my bags and called my friend and was about to leave (runaway) but my mom caught me. Mom said "if u runaway.. we WILL find u and the cops will be involved" ....
so theyd sue my friend for takin in a runaway. i cant get caught and if i do... then ill just runaway again. ive tried to runaway millions of times.
mainly cuz my mom has to have control of EVERY aspect of my life...from my hair to my shoes. and from the monthlys to pit deoderant. I am a rebel w/a nack for adventure and i cant be myself with my mom holding me down.
if anyone has advice on how to runaway without being CAUGHT plleeeezz share with me. pleez.
Rissa, depending on how long you wanna run away for, you could possibly write a suicide note saying your runing off and killing yourself etc. then SNEEK out but if u have and distant freinds or family or someone that you trust that your mother would never think of looking, try thrm first it will buy u quite a bit of time.Now i dont know your mom so i have no idea how she would ract to the note or u Actually runnig away so if u think its too risky or that she would catch you....dont do it. Does ur boyfriend have any ideas to help you? |
Registered: March 03, 2005
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i ran away once, it was the stupidest think i ever did and it was the exact same situation. it was about my girlfriend and my parents were drunk and made an *** out of me and them. so i ran away for only one night. trust me you can survive on the street at 15. only someone who has been out there their entire life can. it only took one night to appreciate what i had, you dont really want to run away trust me. it took me 6 months to be able to go to my girlfriends house again, just give it time.
peace and equality
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Registered: November 27, 2003
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I know that my profile says I'm 19, but in reality, I'm 14. For some reason my proile thinks I was born in '85 instead of '90. So here's some advice coming from someone your age. Mothers love you more than you could think. I used to think my mom was stricter than others, but talking to other kids, she really isn't. I have the opportunity to be homeschooled and now I'm really close to my mom and realize how much she wants for me what I want for myself. I'm sure your mom knows that you don't want to be living on the street, working at McDonalds with a baby by the time your 17. She just loves you.
Just because nobody understands you, that doesn't mean you're artistic.
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Registered: April 23, 2005
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my mom did something horrible and ever since then we've lost our relationship. i can't approach her rationally anymore, because most of the time she won't let me talk, or she simply doesn't care. she won't let me see my best friend anymore because she doesn't like her, and it seems like she takes things away from me just because she can't stand me being happy. i know this sounds naiive, but i would appreciate it if the advice i got didn't consist of "grow up". i need some advice on how to rationally speak with my mom while getting the point across. it seems like every time i try to talk, i end up getting some privelage or other taken away. meh... this is all a big mess
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Registered: January 28, 2005
Posts: 73
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hey, let me spell out a trend here Trust=Love You see, this is how it works, when you keep destroying the trust, you're destroying love, causing a very bad relationship. simple
Why do I have a conciense, all it does is **** with me?
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Registered: February 18, 2004
Posts: 3177
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Get the f*** over it, unless she does something seriously wrong (ex: abuse), you have no reason to hate your own mother. Hell my mom prolly would've done the same thing. Actually just f****** grow up and take responsibility for your own actions, running away isn't going to do a thing. You don't need advice on how to run away, you need it on how to grow up. Have you actually tried talking to your mom? PS: learn to type / spell properly. ............sorry y'all, I am kind of pissed off.
Hope for the best and expect the worst............take whatever life throws at you...
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Registered: January 20, 2005
Posts: 101
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I believe the parents of our generation were too ****ing high.
Beautiful thing, let not your petals wilt, perversion is going against your own power and ambition, my dear, my Lolita.
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Registered: May 03, 2003
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Great advice reaper. Now leave.
I like these calm little moments before the storm.
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Registered: March 28, 2005
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hey if u are still having trouble with ur mom (like me i fu***** hate her so much and i hate my dad too he's a fu***** jack***) i know how u could un away without beign caught i'll tell u in steps
step:1 "A helpful ally *this is probably the hardest step* make a new friend and DONT do anything to screw up the relationship make sure this person is the same sex let ur friendship grow and NEVER let him/her come over to ur house and DO NOT let ur parents or anyone in your family know u have this friend make sure no one knows about him/her gradually tell him/her about how much u ahte ur parents (but not too much because u dont want him/her to think ur a whiner and leave u 'cause they don't wanna hear it) then when ur friendship is strong enoyugh ask him/her BEGG them to help u run away from ur parents plead them to help u when they say yes thank them.
Step:2 The preperatios" Pack everything u need everything u want in a bag and HIDE it in the best place u can find MAKE SURE its a place ur parents will not find it and make sure they dont go into ur room because they may ask about the absense of many things clothes ETC.
Step 3 "The Plan" U and ur friend make a plan of how u will get into his/her house what u will do to keep u hidden and away from ur parents.
step 4 "sneaking out" When the clock strikes 12:00 Midnight jump out of bed grab the bag from ur hiding space and go t ur parents room MAKE SURE they are asleep by listening closly then sneak out the front door smell the fresh night air and feel the freedome walk to ur friend's house use ur plan and stay hidden dont let ur friend's parents know u are there cover that in u and ur friends plan too and only stay for long enough to freak ur parents out and give u freedome
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Registered: March 28, 2005
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Ugh i hate my mom too she thinks she is so perfect i didnt use to hate her but now i do her and my stupid stepdad think my brother is the best thing that there ever was..hes in a band and they always care about what hes doing and listen to him and stuff and if i talk about me playing soccer they dont even care i quit because never once did they come to my games i dont even think i quit they dont care about me at all i have a boyfriend and im a freshman and we have been dating ever since i was in 7th grade so yea..were pretty serious hes sees how things are and he helps me relize that it will be their fault when i get older and have nothing to do with them. i try to talk to them about what college i want to go to and wat i want to be when i grow up but they never listen they jus interupt me and start talking about my brothers band...im to the point where it jus doesnt bother me nemore im jus so used to it, i havent tried to runaway because i try to be the more mature one out of us three but ive thought about it and what really makes me mad is all of my friends just think there the coolest parents ever because they dont care iff ppl are over i can cuss and stuff but i mean i cant jus do nething but i can do alot but yea there cool when it comes to things like that but when it comes down to ther stuff LIKE BEING A FAIR PARENT i think they suck at it....what should i do ne help is beneficial
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Registered: June 06, 2003
Posts: 212
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If I've learned one thing about parents, it's that everything they do for you is the result of them caring about you (unless it's abuse). You're mom might not seem fair but what if you try talking to her and telling the truth. DON'T runaway because it will just make your life worse, try to work out the problem in an intelligable way
It's my time to fly...
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