Ugh i hate my mom too she thinks she is so perfect i didnt use to hate her but now i do her and my stupid stepdad think my brother is the best thing that there ever was..hes in a band and they always care about what hes doing and listen to him and stuff and if i talk about me playing soccer they dont even care i quit because never once did they come to my games i dont even think i quit they dont care about me at all i have a boyfriend and im a freshman and we have been dating ever since i was in 7th grade so yea..were pretty serious hes sees how things are and he helps me relize that it will be their fault when i get older and have nothing to do with them. i try to talk to them about what college i want to go to and wat i want to be when i grow up but they never listen they jus interupt me and start talking about my brothers band...im to the point where it jus doesnt bother me nemore im jus so used to it, i havent tried to runaway because i try to be the more mature one out of us three but ive thought about it and what really makes me mad is all of my friends just think there the coolest parents ever because they dont care iff ppl are over i can cuss and stuff but i mean i cant jus do nething but i can do alot but yea there cool when it comes to things like that but when it comes down to ther stuff LIKE BEING A FAIR PARENT i think they suck at it....what should i do ne help is beneficial

If I've learned one thing about parents, it's that everything they do for you is the result of them caring about you (unless it's abuse). You're mom might not seem fair but what if you try talking to her and telling the truth. DON'T runaway because it will just make your life worse, try to work out the problem in an intelligable way

All that I have to say is, well, grow-up. If you want your mom to treat you with respect and like an adult that you claim you are, than don't you think that it's time to show her and prove to her that you are these things and more? Like I said, just grow-up, have respect your yourself and your mom, and really try to understand where she is coming from. Maybe try to put yourself in her shoes and see what she has to go through in order of raising a teenager. All I am asking is for you to do that and hopefully the relationship between you and your mom will get better than it is now. I hope that this helps.

I as well am in the "I HATE MY ****ING MOM!" scene. My mom too is controlling and she get pissed at me for doing the smallest thing. "Mom I want to be a vegetarian." "WHAT THE HELL YOUR GONNA EAT WHAT I FIX YOU!" When she gets pissed she gets emotional. If you have any siblings that you're compared to, then that's a ****ty situation as well. I am 18 and can now do basically what I want when I want, as long as I get good grades considering I am in college (buy my parents are paying for it). I have wanted to kill my mom before--it may sound like I am psycho, but why should someone be able to control your entire life because they're older. Sure they do make the money, but if you really want to have more freedom, get a job. That's what I did when I was 14, it did help, I bought my own clothes and ate what I wanted. But think about what you've done your only 15 with a guy in your bed...Were you in there with him? Depending on your actions is probably why your mom has absolutely no trust in you what-so-ever. When I was 14, I too tried to run away. My mom almost ran me over. Never tried to do it again, but sure as hell wanted to. Running away isn't the answer believe me. How will you make it--even if you get a job, you can't even make minimum wage. And your friends will end up getting screwed over if you take them in. Avoid your mom as much as possible and let her know that you ARE a teenager and NEED A TON OF FREEDOM.

damn somebody needs a nap

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Originally posted by jamaica17:
those who hate their moms have no respect at all for their elders. It is ok to not like your mom, but hate is too harsh.

why should we respect our elders? Do you respect hitler? please use some common sense here.

Rissa hun I understand how you feel at one point we're all at the point your at now. But try and think of it form your mom's presepective. She might be a hienous ***** to you but in reality you just have her extremly worried that's proably why she went ape****. And hating you mom for doing nothing more that looking at for you (remember she didn't know the entire situation) and raising you and teaching for these some odd years is being ungrateful and don't runaway i know its tempting but she will call the cops they will find you and you will go to juvie which i do not reccomend because thats not the type of "adventure" you want .

I hear ya, Barkid. It's a rare guy who doesn't think about sex all the time.

I'd also like to clarify that some people are able to have someone they are attracted to in their bed just to sleep or cuddle without it progressing. Unfortunately I don't think this group of people is the majority. When two people whom are attracted to each other end up horizontally on a given surface it tends to escalate into "banging nasties" despite good intentions.

I actually agree with you jamaica. To hate is to have a passion to kill. Now, if you want to kill your mom, you need to have the nice men in white coats take you away.

More likely, you extremely dislike, perhaps even despise, your mother.

Rissa, you think you're all grown up- but you're not.
Maturity involves acceptance and appreciation- obviously something you have yet to learn. Your mother loves you and it seems like she just wants the best for you.

Take advantage of her experience. She was 15 once, and she's probably been through a lot of the same troubles as you. Its hard as a teen.. when you want to learn from your own mistakes- but sometimes you just have to swallow your pride and take someone else's advice.

She's not holding you down, she's bringing you up right.

those who hate their moms have no respect at all for their elders. It is ok to not like your mom, but hate is too harsh.

Rissa... sorry but. You are STUPID. Dude thats all i gotta say...

Don't worry about it.
-Sunset

wow, im sorry to hear that sunset...

I'm not trying to be a ***** to any of you, but at least you guys have a ****ing Mom. Don't say you hate your Mothers, please. I said that and a month later she died.

Please, all grow up and realize that your Mothers love you, no matter what.
-Sunset

I'm 110% positive that my mom could trust me to be alone with a guy in my room, but there really would be no way of her knowing that so I'm ok with her not letting me.

I'm in the mom-hate-club as well. She yells about everything, the blinds, eating, school, yell yell yell and even when she's proved wrong she'll never admit she's wrong. I think that that's what bothers me the most. She never appologizes or steps down.

A little harsh, but nicely put!

Advice on how to run away without being caught...sorry, can't help you there. I'm a mature individual. You could ask my 10-year-old sister who once got to the end of our driveway with a backpack and an intent to leave...but other than that, you seem to have made things worse with your rebelling.

Here's the reason your mom is so controlling: you have not shown that you can be trusted. Believe me, my mom used to be the same. Until, that is, I showed that I'm mature. Running away definitely isn't the answer.

Work on that, and she'll give you some leeway.

You told your mother you were a lesbian?

I wish you could see my face right now, I really do.