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Originally posted by fallingbrownhateher:
SOMEONE FREAKING HELP ME!!!!!!!
i mean for the love of F*** my mom must hate me.
all she ever does is yell at me for being to lazy and i have no respect for her. she never gives me an encouragment and she carse more about her bf then she does about me. for a f***ing example she tells me to stop watching too much tv and playing video games, then i go outside with my freinds and she makes me come in for the rest of the night at 5 freaking 30 im 16!!!!!!! she moved me away from my own dad because there divorced and allo my old freinds from nj to ny. i think i might kill her by the end of this year.... we have already hit eachother back and forth several times guys.. i need help get me away from this bitch... and another thing.... she hits my all the time that fucking bitch she is so DEAD..... BANG

hi this is grace22 if you want to make your mom mad have sex and see how she reacts to that

i hate my mom she always blames me for everything and lets my brother get away. she is a fucken bitch.and i hate her shit of a boyfriend he makes me crazy. when i have my boyfriend over she is sooooooooooo nosy. i mean we never do anything and i would never. she accused me of haveing SEX. i hate that shit when people blame you. it is not fucken fair. if anyone has any advice what i should do please write me back i would really appreciate it.

I HATE MY MOM

Ya well I hate my mom too...She is a stupid bitch...Idc who thinks this is stupid but she took away all my shitt and wont let me see my friends for no good reason. I gave some kid a ride home from work and now Im grounded for a LONG time and when I say a LONG time I mean a LONG ASS time and next saturday is my 17th b-day and we were suppoesed to have a :girls day: but ya not anymore which it was goin to be stupid anywayz b/c my lil sis was gonna come b/c her b-day is around the same time as mine even though she already had hers. Ya but anywayz so I have no car no phone no NOTHING for like ever of atleast until I'm 18 which I figured out is in 374 days from now 374 jesus crist. AND she did the worst possible thing i think she could have ever done CANCEL my gym membership that was the worst part b/c im not fat but i want to be in better shape and she knew that that was the most important thing for me but she canceld and now i obviously cant go and she wont even let me drive to work...I HAVE NO car priviledges what so ever and shes takin my paychecks and keeping them for herself now. OH and she said she was goin to send me away to live someplace else which honestly i dont fucking care anymore b/c she already took away all my stuff and she wont alow me to hang out with any of my friends and I believe that when you are a teenager friends are probably one of the most inmportant aspects in your life and for someone to go and tkae friends away from a person can cause major emotional problems b/c without someone to talk to you start to go crazy...IDK this blows...not to mention i dont have a dad COOL......SO i guess im just gonna go in one of those crazy places b/c thats whta she keeps threatening b/c shes a duech!

look i know an over protective mom/andor dad can be a serious pain in the ass....but living with a drug addict who cant EVER make the rent,not to mention has four other children to take care of besides me..does not even compare to the miserable shithole ive been living for the past 17 years!If you all could imagine having to steal your mothers drugs to make the rent and feed your siblings as well as dealing with your own life..maybe you would all see running away cuz your dad thinks your a loser or killing your mom because she wont let you play your fuckin video games is the most cowardly thing you could possibly sink to!...and marine16, FUCK OFF with your holy self ritous bullshit!!!

I think you really need to look at where your mom is coming from. You said your dad just left for Iraq, and she is probably really scared. It seems like she is holding onto you because she is afraid of being alone; she doesn't want you to leave her too.

TRUST ME, I know having an overprotective parent is not fun. It makes life as a teenager SO difficult. I would suggest you talk to your mom. Let her know that you understand why she is so overprotective. Show her that you still care about her, and that you're not going anywhere. Spend some time just with her once in awhile, get her to trust you. It will then be easier to convince her that you will be okay on your own in "the real world," and you will end up happier in the end.

hey everyone,
this is my situation. My mom is a love sick bitch! my dad left for iraq like a month ago and now she knows she can scream and yell at me whenever she pleases. I swear shes a physco!!! All she ever does is come home from work and nags about something to release her anger out on me then sits on her fat A** and watches her korean tapes. She lets my brother do whatever he pleases. while she makes me stay isolated in my house because shes too paranoid to let me drive also because she doesnt want to pay the money for it. so my brother is getting to experience all the fun things u do as a teenager while im stuck at home nothing to do and my friends are all getting tired of picking me up to hang out. so this is my plan. I'm just going to use the bitch. i have no love for that cold hearted physco. i'm going to pretend i respect her because that's all i can do if i want to get the things i want. sorry thats mean but u have no idea what kind of situation im in. i deserve a better warm hearted caring mom. not this usless thing.

Fallingbrownhateher, you need to seek immediate help. I have contacted youthNOISE staff so they can assist you.

SOMEONE FREAKING HELP ME!!!!!!!
i mean for the love of F*** my mom must hate me.
all she ever does is yell at me for being to lazy and i have no respect for her. she never gives me an encouragment and she carse more about her bf then she does about me. for a f***ing example she tells me to stop watching too much tv and playing video games, then i go outside with my freinds and she makes me come in for the rest of the night at 5 freaking 30 im 16!!!!!!! she moved me away from my own dad because there divorced and allo my old freinds from nj to ny. i think i might kill her by the end of this year.... we have already hit eachother back and forth several times guys.. i need help get me away from this bitch... and another thing.... she hits my all the time that fucking bitch she is so DEAD..... BANG

So let me see if I understand this...

Rissa, in order to get the ban lifted on your boyfriend you told your Mom you were a Lesbain? Is this true, are you a lesbian? If you're not a lesbian perhaps I would suggest being honest with your Mom. Parents are always much more trusting if you are honest with the. Being a liar will not get you mom to stop controling your life because she probably thinks you are incapable of running your own life because you can't tell the truth.

Also, I bet your mom called the cops because she had rules about boyfriends being in your bed. Follow her rules and I am sure you can avoid the situtation from happening in the futre.

heya illneverbehappy, i was just going through the first page and read how you hate your mom, and I just thought i'd say that's it's okay. I hate my mom too, she's just like yours, except I haven't got a father, so I'm stuck with her all the time. I just wanted you to know your not alone, I know how your feeling okay? Just e strong.

If I was your mom, I would've done the exact same thing.

When I was a kid, I threatened to run away and my mom helped me pack my bag and set it and me out on the front porch. I walked halfway down the street and realized how stupid it was. I then went back home because I understood that it wasn't that bad getting food, shelter, clothes, toys, and everthing else paid for. If you run away from home you are really dumb.

but only sometimes i kinda love her but not offen

my mom is such a bitch i hate her she lets my brothers do everything but all id do is stay home and do notin and she made me break up with my boyfriend because she didn like him

Illneverbehappy, i know what your going through... i know because at your age i moved from my mothers house because of her treatment of me. it sounds like my mother was cloned and sent to have you and your siblings. look alive though... you only have 3 or4 years of highschool left and then you can move out and be something you thaught you never could. hell im living in a whole nother state from my mother... tomarrow will come... if you need to talk or something contact me.... ill be arround.

yo0h guyz hav no idea how many times my mom has made me cry...she never gives meh any encouragement...she won't let meh hav ne friends...she argues with my dad and thinks he's done things to her family when he hasn't even met them...she cares about my sister more than she does me even tho we're just a year apart..she throws away all of my things without my permission..i've always wanted to hit her so badly...i've never done yelled @ her while she's talking...i've only cried and she wonders why even though all she talks about is how i can never do nething riite..i cry at least once or twice a day...she lovez my oldest brother and my younger sister more than she loves meh and my 21 year old brother....im crying as i write this becuhz no wuhn knos wat im going thru everyday......she expects meh to save up my money but then wen she's broke..she takes my money and never pays me bakk....i only hav one parent and thats my dad cuhz i luv him so much..he's always been there for meh....i can't wait until i move out of here even tho i kno she'll want to liv with me....she can't let meh go...she doesn't let me watch television or talk on the fone because they're "projecting things into my mind"....i can't do nething without my mom over my shoulder...i always hav to lie and my dad has to lie with me so my mom doesn't find out..i just hate her so much...i can't even believe how much pain i hav to go thru just to survive thru the day...so everywuhn who thinks they hate their mom as much i as i do...urr wrong becuhz no wuhn can feel the pain i feel rite now...

Yeah...I'd say this problem is attacked enough...I actually replied to this thread originally though? I totally can't remember it...

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Originally posted by ampmaster:
go buy a deck of cards and deal with it

every one at some point thinks their parent's are jerks but some people have soem serious problems like their parents beat you so if your one of the people who think "oh my parents suck cause I have a 9 PM curfue" shut up and deal, some people in this world actually have a serious problem

I tried to rephrase (sp) it, but this was better. Its good advice.

And ihatemyparents, some advice, the most important thing you can learn on this site. . .DON'T REVIVE OLD THREADS

I'm a 23 year old. After reading this thread, I realized Im not alone.

Ive hated her ever since as far as I can remember. I thought it was all just a part of growing up but she really has a mental problem. I hate her..

Every single time I see her, she's always angry. Anger. That is one word I can discribe her. I cannot talk toher in peace. All the time it is always shouting. She always starts everything. She doesnt appreciate me. She's against everything I do. (I understand if Im doing illegal activity or criminality but I'm not). I like drawing, I like combat sports (cage fights, boxing, martial arts, etc.), I like writing, I like heavy metal music!!!

I understand if she wont like one or two of em but everything I like she is against. Never ever appreciated me. To her, I'm ugly, incompetent, and a useless subhuman trash.

She always had something negative to say even if I always came home in elementary school with all the high grades.

Even now I have a job... I give her huge sums of money and she still doesnt appreciate it. The way she sees me is that I am an embarrassment to her. I dont do drugs, I dont join gangs, I never have any criminal record, but why the fuck does she see me as an embarrassment? Like she told me to back off her friend's daughter who is pretty hot... because I might embarrass her because I'm a "rapist" or something.

I hate my mom. I FUCKING HATE MY MOM!!!

Wow, where to start?

Crockerfin: If you are actually 21, then you don't ever have to see your mom again...get a job and move out if she's so terrible!

Anyone considering running away: Unless you are in a physically abusive situation, you are probably better off staying at home. Sit your parents down and talk to them like an adult. If you run away and your parents don't change their attitudes towards you, then you will end up in a very poor financial situation, potentially even homeless. From all of the people I've spoken to who have been homeless, life on the streets is a heck of a lot harder than living with a difficult parent.

Everyone who wants a later curfew: Before your parents will give you a later curfew, you have to prove to them that you are RESPONSIBLE enough to stay out later. If you are irresponsible enough to come in at 11 when you were supposed to be home at 10, what makes you think your parents want you coming home at 12 when they bump up your curfew to 11? Keep curfew for a good month and then talk (not yell) to your parents, maybe ask if they can approve curfew extensions on a night by night basis.

Everyone else who has a problem with a parent or two: Guess what? You're pretty much stuck with them until you turn 18 (longer if you expect them to pay for college, a car, food, gas, housing...) so be nice and make the most of it. During high school, there were weeks where all I would do was complain about my mom..."she's so overprotective...", "It's only a B+..." Eventually htough I realized that she was just looking out for me. Now I started to take responsibility for myself and we are like best friends...go figure!