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Registered: June 23, 2005
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ok this is the sitation....
ive been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 and a half years and i cant remember a day that her parents actually did like me from day 1 dey just werent feelin me it wasnt so much her mom i think she did kinda like me but she passed away in nov. so its just her dad now but he cant stand me at all he thinks i sell drugs do drugs all kinds of stuff because i have a new car and i always have new stuff but thats because of a law suit settlement i always ask my girlfriend to ask him y he dosent like me but she says he just says he dosent have to explain his self to her hes really gettin on my nerves n he keeps her locked in the house she can never go ne where or ne thing like that i mean i can count on 1 hand how many times we have actually went out to eat movies ect. but we go to the same school so we do see each other but this was the last year for both of us during the year we would leave to go to my house just so we could talk n let each other kno how we were feelin but he caught her leavein my house he rides by all the time to see whos here n go report it to her like he tells her he sees me late at night with ppl in my car n all kinds of stuff ive made a few attempts to talk to him from writein letters to callin her house and goin up to him i dont kno wut else to do i dont wunt to make her choose between us id rather every 1 like each other her lil brothers n sister likes me they look up to me but she turns 18 in a month n i dont want her to just leave her family behind because they have no mom n thats wuts lookin like wuts gonna happen shes 17 and im 18 cant we all just get along
*please excuse the misspelled words if any*
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Registered: September 29, 2004
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quote: Originally posted by crzyme19:
When horselover mentioned capitalization and puncuation, I think she had more of this in mind:
"""I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 and a half years, and I can't remember a day that her parents actually did like me. From day 1, they just weren't feeling me. It wasn't so much her mom. I think she did kind of like me, but she passed away in November, so it's just her dad now, but he can't stand me at all.
He thinks I sell drugs, do drugs, and all kinds of stuff, because I have a new car and I always have new stuff, but that's because of a law suit settlement. I always ask my girlfriend to ask him why he doesn't like me. She says his response is that he doesn't have to explain himself to her. He's really getting on my nerves. He keeps her locked in the house. She can never go anywhere, or anything like that. I mean, I can count on one hand the number of times we have actually gone out to eat, gone to the movies, etc.
We go to the same school, so we do see each other, but this was the last year for both of us. During the year we would leave to go to my house just so we could talk, and let each other know how we were feeling, but he caught her leaving my house. He rides by all the time to see who's here, and then reports it to her. For example, he tells her that he sees me late at night with people in my car, and all kinds of stuff. I've made a few attempts to talk to him. I've tried everything from writing letters to calling her house and going up to him. I don't know what else to do.
I don't want to make her choose between us. I'd rather everyone like each other. Her little brothers and sister likes me. They look up to me. She turns 18 in a month, and I don't want her to just leave her family behind, because they have no mom. However, that's what's looking like it's going to happen. She's 17 and I'm 18. Can't we all just get along?"""
Are you SURE you've really graduated high school?
Oh, thank you, crzy. I was getting cross-eyed. 06, here's my advice to you: Give up. I'm not being mean, and I do believe in love. I dated a guy whose parents thought I was a whore. Really. At first, I found it entertaining, but then it began to wear on me and our relationship. Long story short, I had to break up with him because his parents were unrelenting. You should NEVER underestimate the bond between parent and offspring. The bottom line is -- you're young, you're healthy, and you've got a lot of relationships ahead of you. Unless you truly, deep down in the very crevice of your heart think she is the one, dump her. I know it isn't her fault, but in the end, it is NOT worth the trouble. Her family will ALWAYS be a part of her life; you're expendable. You can try and change her father's mind, but dollars for doughnuts, it won't be worth it.
A lo hecho, pecho.
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Registered: July 26, 2003
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When horselover mentioned capitalization and puncuation, I think she had more of this in mind: """I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 and a half years, and I can't remember a day that her parents actually did like me. From day 1, they just weren't feeling me. It wasn't so much her mom. I think she did kind of like me, but she passed away in November, so it's just her dad now, but he can't stand me at all. He thinks I sell drugs, do drugs, and all kinds of stuff, because I have a new car and I always have new stuff, but that's because of a law suit settlement. I always ask my girlfriend to ask him why he doesn't like me. She says his response is that he doesn't have to explain himself to her. He's really getting on my nerves. He keeps her locked in the house. She can never go anywhere, or anything like that. I mean, I can count on one hand the number of times we have actually gone out to eat, gone to the movies, etc. We go to the same school, so we do see each other, but this was the last year for both of us. During the year we would leave to go to my house just so we could talk, and let each other know how we were feeling, but he caught her leaving my house. He rides by all the time to see who's here, and then reports it to her. For example, he tells her that he sees me late at night with people in my car, and all kinds of stuff. I've made a few attempts to talk to him. I've tried everything from writing letters to calling her house and going up to him. I don't know what else to do. I don't want to make her choose between us. I'd rather everyone like each other. Her little brothers and sister likes me. They look up to me. She turns 18 in a month, and I don't want her to just leave her family behind, because they have no mom. However, that's what's looking like it's going to happen. She's 17 and I'm 18. Can't we all just get along?""" Are you SURE you've really graduated high school?
What if what you think is great, really is great, but it's not as great as something greater?
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Registered: June 23, 2005
Posts: 3
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he wont talk to me he always says hes busy or somethin like that i dont want to disrespect him by like going and knocking on his door im like stuck im out of ideas for this guy i dont make prejudgements about anyone therefore i dont dislike him i just dont agree with what hes doing
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Registered: June 23, 2005
Posts: 3
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OK this is the situation....
I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 and a half years and i cant remember a day that her parents actually did like me from day 1 they just weren't feeling me it wasn't so much her mom i think she did kind of like me but she passed away in nov. so its just her dad now but he cant stand me at all he thinks i sell drugs do drugs all kinds of stuff because i have a new car and i always have new stuff but thats because of a law suit settlement i always ask my girlfriend to ask him y he doesn't like me but she says he just says he doesn't have to explain his self to her he's really getting on my nerves n he keeps her locked in the house she can never go any where or any thing like that i mean i can count on 1 hand how many times we have actually went out to eat movies etc. but we go to the same school so we do see each other but this was the last year for both of us during the year we would leave to go to my house just so we could talk n let each other know how we were feeling but he caught her leaving my house he rides by all the time to see who's here n go report it to her like he tells her he sees me late at night with people in my car n all kinds of stuff I've made a few attempts to talk to him from writing letters to calling her house and going up to him i don't know what else to do i don't want to make her choose between us id rather every 1 like each other her little brothers n sister likes me they look up to me but she turns 18 in a month n i don't want her to just leave her family behind because they have no mom n thats what's looking like what's going to happen she's 17 and I'm 18 cant we all just get along
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Registered: February 27, 2003
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06scinontc, I'm afraid that was very hard to read due to an extreme shortage of punctuation and capitalization. I'm not saying that you have to have perfect grammar but if you could just try a little it'd make things much easier. As far as your problem goes I'm afraid I can't really help you. Have you tried to sit down with this girl and her dad and really tried to talk to him?
"I know of no safe repository of the ultimate power of society but the people. And if we think them not enlightened enough, the remedy is not to take power from them, but to inform them by education." Thomas Jefferson
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