Yea i'm glad people made abuse against the law because no child should be going through that and i had to go through it. Nobody that hasn't been abused doesn't know how it feels. But if you do tell people that you were abused they act all weird!!! I'm not different from everyone else well yea i'm really hyper!!!!!
I refuse to be one of those people who look at a victim differently. It wasn't their fault and I think that whoever says the person made the abuser do what they did is crazy.
What happened to me did change my outlook on life and now I'm a much happier person.
The saddest thing in my family is that my little brother has been abused by our dad. He choked my little brother for a battery!!! a damn battery..he cried the whole night and had begged our mom to move but she thought since he was barely drunk,one beer, that he was drunk and had no common sense at the time. Our dad constantly swears at my brother and yet he's his hero. He's an alcoholic without a license and a hero in my brother's eyes. He would also beat our mom, for some reason it didnt happen to me but I have never seen him as a father model. Of course we moved but..haha, right down the street. So we could visit him whenever we wanted.
I yearn for a real father. Who ever has a dad that takes you fishing, to Mc Donald's, or even plays catch with you.. spends time with you..you dont know how lucky you are.
-gaby [There are two great days in a person's life - the day we are born and the day we discover why. -William Barclay]
I was abused mentaly my parents always fought for as long as i could remember. my paremts are going through a divorce now and its hard on me its been a year since my dad left but i remember him ripping me some times i had relts on my legs.It hasnt realy effected me that much i try not to think about those days.I havnt realy told many people of my past only my mom and my closest friends. blakely13
My oldest brother was abused by my father. Once he kicked him because he thought that my brother tripped my cousin. My cousin actually tripped on a cord. My cousin didnt say No he didnt trip me, so suddenly my brother Doug ran to his room my father followed him we heard a loud noise ran up to doug's room found him curled up on his bed crying. Then my father cruelly made Doug water the lawn. I was very little and I was left scarred and a new hatred for my cousin who I do not talk to now and I dont talk to my father who has moved to Washington 3 years ago. But now I put it past me and I try not to think of that.
..my dad **sigh** but you don't need to treat people like they are different just because of that. we are all the same we just have lived through different experiences.
Hope for the best and expect the worst............take whatever life throws at you...
That's not what we're talking about, Lillo. We were talking about actual abuse. I think you're using the twerm abuse too loosly. Domestic abuse, which is what you are talking about is hitting of a spouse, or excess hitting of a child.
And, how about using correct grammar. No yall (and when you do say it, it's ya'll). And there's no need to swear.
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Almost every one thinks that they get abused and if you guys are talking about "getting hit" thats not getting abused thats life.I know this gurl amelis johnson and she always used to tell people that she got abused and then when people asked her how she gets abused she would say.. My daddy hits me.Who gives a d*mn every one gets hit.**** yall i was abused.well im gonna go.peace. I LOVE YOU AMELIA!
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Hi! I am new here. I have finally decided to take a chance and start living my life back the way it was originoly. I was raped and beaten brutally last June. Since then I am frightened of most things including my famile and friends. I since then have not talked to anyone but my famile and my best friend, the doctors. They still have not found my rapist. I am 13. And I wonder how some men could be so cruel to women? I miss my old life. One thing is that my boyfriend has not left me. He has been with me since the night i got out of the hospitol after the rape. and i thank him and my parents , the police officers and the doctors for helping me. I hope that every girl that has been raped knows that it is not there fault. It took me some time to figure that out. Thanks.
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I am very supportive of people who have survived through child abuse. I infact have dealt with some myself.
What I don't get is, you are saying "Nobody knows how survivors of child abuse feel" implying that you are different but then you say that you're not different than everyone else.
And "Nobody tht hasn't been abused" should be "People that haven't been abused"
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