YN Home  
Causes Blogs Play City Boards Debate Tools Join YN!
 
Page 1 2 

Closed Topic Closed
Go
New
Find
Notify
Tools
  Login/Join 
Picture of Shade
Registered: December 27, 2006
Posts: 3981
Posted   Hide PostReport This Post  
A thread from 2003...exciting.

But I really have no pity for rape victims. Sure, traumatizing. Also, hard if impossible to get over. But so is depression. So are suicide attempts. So is being forced to believe something by your family for your whole youthful life. So is having your parents divorce. So is having a relative die. So is having a sibiling kidnapped. So is having a pet die or have to be killed ( also known as "put down" ). So is seeing a family member or good friend waste away at the clutches of a disease. So is losing the function of a major body part. So is being born without a major body part. So is being blind. So is being disowned. Shall I go on?


...a Wandering Star for whom the black darkness has been reserved forever...
Picture of VeganCath
Registered: December 14, 2006
Posts: 119
Posted   Hide PostReport This Post  
quote:
Originally posted by xlimepops:
Even if I have been raped I wouldn't feel very comfortable sharing it with a bunch of strangers on the internet. You should try a therapist instead of seeking help on YN.


Sometimes talking to people online is the first step and it'll make it easier to get real help.

Being raped is one of the biggest curses of life, without proper help and support it could affect you for the rest of your life. You may feel like you're nothing and you aren't worthy, and someone has totally abused you without consent and you arent in control. You may develop depression or a self distructive illness in order to feel that control again thats been stripped from you.
Best bet, talk to someone about it, keeping it secret will eat you up inside.
Picture of bauhaus
Registered: March 09, 2004
Posts: 2913
Posted   Hide PostReport This Post  
I was mind raped by a salesmen.


-I am the j1zz on your flower- http://www.myspace.com/bauhausbold
Picture of DXRifYouDontKnowAsk
Registered: December 06, 2006
Posts: 71
Posted   Hide PostReport This Post  
depends on your definition of rape.


The Lord shall neither leave you nor forsake you. We are who abandon our creator, never vice versa. Trials and terrors of the world upon a Christian are just trials, strengthening our faith or destroying it altogether. Make the choice. Stay strong or believe in the lies.
Picture of xlimepops
Registered: December 19, 2006
Posts: 42
Posted   Hide PostReport This Post  
Even if I have been raped I wouldn't feel very comfortable sharing it with a bunch of strangers on the internet. You should try a therapist instead of seeking help on YN.


The moral this time is girls make boys cry.
Registered: May 10, 2003
Posts: 104
Posted   Hide PostReport This Post  
i was raped and i just don't really talk about it because it brings back bad memories!!

~brittany lyn~
Picture of Teddy
Registered: December 29, 2002
Posts: 1854
Posted   Hide PostReport This Post  
A psychologist and therapist doesn't work for everyone......... Roll Eyes Oh and a psychologist makes things worse. I'm not saying this for all psychologists or therapists but you know sometimes it may happen that way.

Bye n Have a nice day
Registered: July 13, 2003
Posts: 319
Posted   Hide PostReport This Post  
Thanks everyone,
I'll ask my Dad about getting a theripist after I tell him what happened... & My closest friends, oh man I'm not looking forward 2 this!

Mystery thanks I got your e-mail.

Always,
SoccerChick13 Frown Smile
Registered: July 14, 2003
Posts: 128
Posted   Hide PostReport This Post  
I have not been raped but I do suggest you get counseling from a psychologist/therapist. They can help you through it. Plus your family should be helping you, too.
Registered: July 17, 2003
Posts: 318
Posted   Hide PostReport This Post  
i a so sorry,know that you will be in my prayers
i hope you have lots of friends to help you through this,feel free to contact me at any time via email my name is mystery . Frown
  Powered by Social Strata Page 1 2  

Closed Topic Closed