has anyone on this board in their mid-late teens ever been seriously hit on by somebody in their forties or fifties?

I'm not sure what I think of adults who make it a habit of trying to get with youth who are just below or just at the age of majority/consent. It strikes me as pedophilic...especially when the person is acting like paternal or maternal while they're trying to get you back to their house to have sex with you. It's so, so creepy.

What does everyone else think of middle-aged or older adults being sexually involved with older teenagers?

once in grade 7 we had a male substitute and he walked into the girls change room when my class was in there.. he stood in the doorway for half the time untill someone noticed. We were all half naked most of the time and one of my friends was taking a shower! then once we got out of the change room we decided we werent going to go to class because he scared us. so we sat in the hall. after class he was on his way to the staff room and he sexually abused my friend. So i guess its not about me.. but i know someone who has. Its so horrible to know that there are teachers out there that can be so disgusting. Even people who arent teachers .. like parents who do the same. its disgusting.

It isn't right for older adults to be turned on by someone so wet behind the ears. Its sick and they need physcological help, but even when they get the help that is needed... they might still be... the way that they always was. Its creepy that they can feel for someone that is half, triple, fourth... their age and its wrong... just plain wrong.

i was hit on my my ex's dad when i was about 16 (he was 40-50) he said something to the effect of "i bet you are good in bed" there were many other times when he said stuff about my body looking hot .... it is just sick.

at the time i didnt know what to say so to avoid a confrontational situation i smiled and walked away...

what scares me more than ever is that now i have a 2 year old daughter and she could become the victim someday...

I have been very seriously "hit on" by several men in their 40's and 50's. The two worst cases were when I was in high school, my teacher who was 56 years old was sexually harassing me, and in my first semester of my freshman year of college , a 41 year old man who was a level 3 sex offender made advances towards me.

I have been with a man who was 13 years older than me, and I am now with a wonderful man who is 11 years older than me. I don't have a problem with age differences in relationships, but it does kind of bother me when a man or woman tries to hit on someone young enough to be their child or grandchild.

I believe you should decide for yourself. When I was 16, I was hit on by a 33 year old guy. Seriously not my type, but I wouldn't have known for sure if someone that age hadn't tried it.

personally i think people should stay within ten years of their age. its not disgusting to me because its what those people want but it is a little weird. no offense to you guys. i usually stay within six years of my age and im 16 and thats just right for me.

If they're attractive and healthy, I don't care about age. Simple as that.

Personally, I don't think I would ever be attracted to a guy who was older or as old as my parents. But I agree with those of you who said that age is just a number. As long as the girl (or guy, but it's usually the girl who's younger) is old enough to know what she's doing (as in not a 14 year old girl and a 30 or older guy, that's sick) then I don't have a problem with it. My family has friends who the wife is either as old or younger, can't remember which, than the guy's daughter from his first marriage and they're very happy together. I think that big of a gap is kind of weird, but hey, to each her own.

Queen of Hell, I know you probably didn't know, but, "And hell is just a sauna" is from 10 Things I Hate About You. Lol.

I wouldn't want a 50/60 year old man.. i find it disturbing when guys older then my mom hit on me. But, i will say this to each their own.. if a 19 year old girl is attracted to a 50 year old man, then whatever..

To me age doesn't matter that much. I've had crushes on older men. I think it's because most guys my age are rather immature and just want to play the field and take advantage of girls ( I said most, not all) And sure some older men are like that too but they usually get it out of their systems by a certain age point. (and yes I know, not always). I think that if you're attracted to someone then that's all that should matter. It's not a person's age that matters, it's the age they act!

My Father is 17 years older than my mother and they have been married 34 years. My mom was 15 and had to have her parents consent while my dad was 32 and no she wasn't pregnant. They are the Norman Rockwell couple we all wish we could be. Age doesn't matter at all. Just that the two are happy.

I don't really like older men. I was at Kroger's shopping once, and this older man (probably around fifty) told me how nice I looked in my long skirt. And he said it several times while his wife was standing right their. He kept looking at me everytime we passed each other in the aisles. It was wierd and made me feel very uncomfortable.

It would depend on the person, honestly. If the guy was nice, single, etc., age doesn't matter. I'd rather stick with people my own age so I can relate to them better, though.

Age doesn't matter to me there are lots ofguys on tv that are older than me that I'd ride til morning if i had the chance and there have been several guys i have seen that i thought were over 36 that i thought were handsome.Older guys also have money and take you to nicer places and give better gifts. it comes down to if the guy is nice and goodlooking then yes i'd go out with him and maybe more.

getting hit on by old guys is just plain gross....and especally if their as old as your mom

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if youre going to try to be funny, please come up with your own material. (even though it is a good movie..)

I honestly don't know what movie you're talking about. I've always used the phrase :"Hell is just a sauna"

You got me.

Age is a measurement. It's a way of telling you how old you are. And you have the choice to believe that there is no hell. I personally agree.

The name Queen of Hell came from my friend who was amazed that my room was literally over 90 degrees and I wasn't bothered.

So to change my last remark:
Poison Ivy is just a plant

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And hell is just a suana

if youre going to try to be funny, please come up with your own material. (even though it is a good movie..)