Hey,
OK, I've been sexually assaulted & people on here keep telling me that I should tell somebody. But how do you tell somebody? My Dad's under a lot of stress & I asked him if he would believe me if something like that happened & he said no. My sister hates me & thinks I'm a b!tch so that won't work. Who else can I tell? And isn't it to late if I was assaulted when I was 5. And I've been assaulted most of my life. So if anyone can help that would be great!
-JM

if so report them immediately, if not report the next person who does. Don't wait on your family. I certainly can't. I'm on my own in areas like this

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Teddy! Your not unpure! And your not dirty! It wasen't your fault! Don't say that about yourself!

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Does it really matter what I think of myself?

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What's the matter Gem?

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I'm annoying her, probably! Sorry, Gemie! "Gives her some cheese" It's Ranchera (sp) cheese! I hope you like it!

Bye N have a nice day

What's the matter Gem?
-JM

Pffft.

Teddy! Your not unpure! And your not dirty! It wasen't your fault! Don't say that about yourself!
-JM

Barbie- Thanks! Exactly. Peoeple don't believe me most of the time & right now I don't have any friends to tell. So I'm stuck. And yes you did help, maybe if people read your post they will get it. I've said it on here about 10 times. No one believes me! And no one cares! So hope people understand. Thanks,
-JM

well, justmyself, seems to me that anyone you tell either won't belive you or won't care. so, you don't really have anybody to tell that is worth telling. Tell someone who will care like your friends, maybe go to a guidance councelor and talk bout it or just use youthNOISE as a place for you to vent your anger. It can be really hard when you have no one who will understand your feelings but there are other people in the world who feel just as alone as you do. if you could find other people who have the same problem and talk to them about it you will feel better and maybe you will have helped them too. or you could find someone who had the problem and solved it...ask how they did it get their advice on what and how to tell someone. Hope I helped you!

It doesn't matter noether way, I'm a dirty and unpure person!

Bye N have a nice day

Billy- Your scared?! Scared of us?! Why are you scared... we won't bite you (well maybe some of us...) Anyway, thanks for clearing that up... I feel bad now... I scare people... my point of life!Well, maybe not... but heh. It's pretty damn close. Well, I figured out not all guys are like that. This on guy looked at me & smiled... I feel so special. Ok I will get over myself...

Teddy- I know I'm late on this... but your not a w-o-r-e!!! Don't say that! No... you got it all wrong! I'm the w-h-o-r-e! Yes, myself. My true colors. If a b!tch is something different I'm that to. I'm the Champion B!tch.
-JM

awww, Teddy, you're not a bad person for being harassed...that's not your fault!!! You're not a bad person at all, in fact, I think you're a pretty good person from what I've seen here! Just next time...make them go away. The guys, I mean. If you have to threaten them, scream, yell...just make them leave. Like, I used to be really uncomfortable with my boobs when I was younger...and in elem. school, the guys would want to touch them and stuff...and I ended up just telling them that if they didn't go away I'd kick them "where it counts." lol elem. school language...what can I say? Just let them know you mean business and they'll stop.
You're NOT A BAD PERSON! lol okay?

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We are affraid!!! Plain and simple...you may look at us an make a disgusted face(girls have done that to me). You may think we are freaks for staring at you...we know it's a little strange. I was also shy...so secretly I could admire you from afar...yet never have what it takes to act on my feelings(fear of rejection).

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I still don't understand why he was looking at me? He wasn't like that with the other girls. What was so differeent about me? Okay, at first I really believed he hated me! Did I do something wrong?

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Things that guys have done to YOU don't make you a w-h-o-r-e.

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It makes me feel like one! I didn't even want to do any of those things.

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and Teddy you always seem to forget I know some of those things...and I still don't think you are a bad person...

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What do you know? E-mail me some of these things you know sometime, please. I'm just wondering! I still think I am a bad person. If only you knoew everything!

Bye n Have a nice day

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Things that guys have done to YOU don't make you a w-h-o-r-e.

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Thank you...and Teddy you always seem to forget I know some of those things...and I still don't think you are a bad person...

ok firstly, those guys touching you and asking about your boobs are jerks, but give them a chance to go away...all of do dumb stuff when we are young. But if they keep it up...it's sexual harrasment...and not legal...so you know.

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And Billy, can I ask why in the heck when guys stare at a girl. & the girl looks back & smile's (like I did) looks away... or if you see them staring at you they look away?

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We are affraid!!! Plain and simple...you may look at us an make a disgusted face(girls have done that to me). You may think we are freaks for staring at you...we know it's a little strange. I was also shy...so secretly I could admire you from afar...yet never have what it takes to act on my feelings(fear of rejection).

anyone else have input?

Hey...
Well, second day of school. And this dude sat behind me & kept touching my butt... I kept trying to tell him to stop. But the teacher kept telling me to shut up... And this other guy... well, guys in p.e. asked me what size my boobs were... and if the could touch them. I said no, but they wouldn't stop. I was about just to yell out everything, but I relized that everyone was there. This dude that stared at me yesterday told me why he was staring me... he thought I was pretty so I'm semi- happy now. And Billy, can I ask why in the heck when guys stare at a girl. & the girl looks back & smile's (like I did) looks away... or if you see them staring at you they look away? It's confusing... I saw this one dude that did something to me at school... he just was really disgusting to me.
Well, I'm a b!tch so what's new?
-JM

Things that guys have done to YOU don't make you a w-h-o-r-e. lol why do we put those things in between the letters? Anyways...unless if you voluntarily did those things with guys (whatever they may be) and would continue to do them voluntarily...you're not a *****. I don't think you're a *****, anyway, because you feel guilty or bad about doing those things...right? A ***** couldn't care less about what she's done with guys. So you're not a *****. At all. So be happy!

Yes, I am a W*H*O*R*E* because if you knew what guys did to me then you would consider me one too.

Bye n have a nice day

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dare I ask what?

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Well, they touch me in some uncomfortable ways or they start saying some uncomfortable things to me. I'm not talking about guys in school. Well there was this one guy and this other guy but mainly I'm talking about the guys in the streets and stuff.

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Also my girlfriend thought I wanted to kill her, she said I used to just stare at her and it made her uncomfortable.

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I felt like that too when this one guy was staring at me in school. I didn't think he was going to kill me or anything but I did wonder why he was always staring with this smile on his face and when he realizes I was looking at him, he looked all sad and looked down. Then he gave me this straight sad face once. It just killed me. Did I do something wrong? Billy, your a guy, do you know why?

Bye n have a nice day

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Just staring makes me feel uncomfortable because usually when they stare, they do something.

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dare I ask what?

you are not a w-h-o-r-e...I dunno...I stare sometimes...I know I do it and especially in school. But more often times then not...I was just day dreaming or asleep(I got good at that in school).

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so...a guy just staring at you...may not be bad...unless he starts getting freaky and stalking you.

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Just staring makes me feel uncomfortable because usually when they stare, they do something. I'm a W*H*O*R*E* I know that now!!!!

Bye n have a nice day