Well it wasnt my choice i was raped and i dont know how to tell my parents!

Hey everybody i am preganent and i am 13 years old what do you all think about this?

Please help me!!!

i think you know the answer to that, and no if itd you then talk to someone, if its a friend then tell someone for them, its really not good.

I did

wow...i dont think its right for a 13 year olf to have secrets like that...just a question...how would u have a secret of being on ur death bed?? i mean wouldnt u like have to go to a doctor or something...and wouldnt ur parents know? or isnt it ur parents that u r keeping these secrets from?
~barbie

ya kno those all apply to me and my friends.
Cruel isn't it, how u can be 13 and pregnant? [not me, not pregnant, i mean] Suicide is not the answer. believe me. neither is pyhsical and verbal abuse. i hate it.

well... if a 13 y/o hav secrets like these, there's nothing we can do about it.....

well u should tell sum1 u trust about these things

I did most of things you listed, suicidal, but no being pregnant.
And to tell you the truth, it sucks keeping something as dark as that. You feel alone, like no one is there to help you. You want out of this world.
So my answer would be no, A 13 year old shouldn't have dark secrets like that.

Everybody has secrets, but the kind you're talking about could be really harmful. If you (or someone else) has gone through things like that, it's really important to talk about it. It helps you remember that you're not crazy (at least it did for me!). Secrets don't make you a horrible person, in any way shape or form, but if they make you FEEL horrible, then the best thing you can do is to get it out in the open (even on boards like this). Myself personally, I probably haven't said as much personal stuff in 15 years of talking to my friends at home as I do in a couple of hours on here. I'm a very private person, but I don't see myself as a bad person. (I do have a nasty temper sometimes, though, and I'm very stubborn. Also, I lie a LOT, but I'm working on it) Secrets, just like anything else, have their good points and their bad. Love, Jen.

im only open on this site. i rarely talk outside the internet.

Depressed WaveMaster

No(your not the only one !!),I am pretty open,maybe too much sometimes!!I set my self up by being too forward.And yes,i think I'm a pretty nice person but I can be a *****!I beleive in God and I know he loves us all,not just the stuffy puritions,the sunday church goer's.I bet if I showed up in church dressed the way I am now,the noses and eyebrows would curl!!Hell,Jesus came to save the sinner,not the saint!!Much love to you all!!

[This message was edited by YNLissa on August 16, 2003 at 01:10 PM.]

No, I dont even have secrets like that. I was just wondering, would these secrets by any chance aply to you?

-Nicole

SHOULD they have secrets? prolly not, secrets are stressful. CAN they have secrets? well, if they're secrets, no one knows, huh??

And am I the only one that feels like they dont have any secrets? I don't. I don't care if anyone knows who I like (I love James!) or that I don't read my Bible every day like I should, or that sometimes I feel a little ****ty, a little b*tchy. I feel like an open book, but am I the only one?

Lots of love,
Lynne

xcuse my sic sense of humor but the first question that came to mind was, why??lol,you seemed so INTENT on killing your pain.What stopped you this time?The nosy old lady from next door?I dont think you want to die at all.I feel like your trying to find way's to cope with the bulls88t in life,and not offing yourself is a really big step!!Remember we love you!Keep in touch!!

Please check out the group you have new messages!You may have to click on messages to retrieve them.Larry H.

well of couse the SHOULDNT. but many of them do. what a dumb question.

I'm glad to hear that, iluvu.

Damn.

im still alive

everyone can have secrets no matter what your age, all that matters is how you handle those secrets.