Question:
Ok my best friend got raped and that same night i was supose to go to the movies with her but i didnt and she is so tore up about it and i just wanted to know what you all what you would do cause im trying everything i can to help her.

Choices:
Be their for her no matter what.
forget her.
ditch her.
avoid being around her
stick for her.

 

she really needs you now, more than ever. so be a good friend and be there for her, because like you said she's going to be tore up about the whole thing. maybe you should take her to the mall or the movies to take her mind off of it, you know?

She's your friend, and think of it this way, if you were the one who go raped you would want to have someone helping you through it, and not just your parents or a counsler, this past year there was a girl at my school she was 12 and she got raped by 3 boys, now, she is trying to make it trought it will her parents, counslers, her freinds and now her twin sons. she was only 12. stay with her, you will get through it, and at the end you know what you did what right. Pilar!

whoa! dat's got 2 be tough! the best thing you can do is comfort her but never mention anything about it unless she wants too.. ok?
ehhe

..but seriously

your friend needs your friendship right now, esp at an important time like this in her life!!!! i know how it feels to go thru something horrible but then have your friends leave you b/c they don't want to get involved...that sucks.

but, make sure that she talks to someone else too about the awful incident, such as her parents or a counsler...

you defenetly need to b there for her. but u also need to remember that it wasnt your fault. u need to talk to her, if nesisary help her get counsiling, and just be a sholder to cry on.

Be with her, but yet get some more help...for being raped, it's not easy to get over. Try taking her to see a doctor or a mental health councler and let her talk to them. They can help her too.

You are an amazing friend that she can have...don't let anything take that away from you.

peace

Your friend is going through the most difficulty thing in her life. It is soo miserable that there are people out there who would do such a thing, but it does happend. The best cure the a friend to do is to stay by her and support her 100% of the way, and she will overcome it. It may take a while, but don't blame yourself, and always try to encourage her to be brave and strong again. I know that you can do it.

if you would like anymore suggestions, please don't hesitate to e-mail me at katie9_11@hotmail.com I would love to help you out more.

peace

wow, I agree with the others that right now you should just be there for her. I hope that she is getting help through this difficult times. You sound like a young teenager, so I hope that your not trying to help her all by yourself, right now she needs all the help she can get. Plus she needs all the affection and patience from all of her family and friends. It's not gonna be easy, but she can overcome this tragedy. As for you, don't feel guilty, it was not your fault. Just be there for her with a friendly ear, an honest advice and willing to give affection.

Just be there for her, but what ever you do dont blame yourself. You did not cause your friend to get raped so dont think that. If anything if you were in fact there at the time of the rape you and her could have been killed instead of her being still alive. Now dont think I support people getting raped but I just want you to see the positive even though the negative outweighs this positive.

You are a really good friend, and I'm sure she knows that.