Question:
When I was about five i was sexually molested and now my life is heck. I was just wondering is it possible that my life does have a better ending or can it just get worse.

Elf

Choices:
yes I can
No I can't

 

You're the only one who can change yourself for the better or stay where you are and watch your life slide downhill. Do whatever it takes to make your life better. You know what? what happened in your life was such an amazing testimony that if you change your life for the better you could be a mentor. And it's hard finding a mentor who's been in the same situation as someone else but proving to the world that they can change their lives and be successful. It gives hope for other people who were and are in the same predicament as you.

It will get better. But you need help. It will not be easy or painless in the beginning but eventually you will get pass this and move on. Trust me. My grandfather did awful things to me, both my sisters, a cousin, and a family friend. The truth didn't come out until about 10 years later but we are healing now. Talking helps. And remember, you did nothing wrong it wasn't your fault. God, I was 5 and I didn't know any better. I thought my grandpa loved me. I grew up but I was embarrassed about it so I kept my mouth shut. I shouldn't have but he's out of my life now. You're not alone. It will get better.

ofcourse you can change it..you must learn to bury your past.. there's no reason for it to be a factor of whether or not your life gonna be happy or not..you cant let one little obstacle(maybe not little but compared to all the life challenges your gonna go through, its little..) keep you from reaching your goals and from being happy..

goodluck..

I was sexually molested too. I know what you're going through. I'm sorry oyu had to go through that.

It can go either way, I can't tell the future. You can make it better and you can make it worse. I'm sorry, I'm not much help. Best wishes,
-Sunset