What do you do when you like your best friends boy friend me and her are really close. she totally trusts me and we call each other sisters. she is going out with this really hot guy. but the thing that makes it hard was that just before she went out with him he was my boy friend and we broke up cuz he thought i was cheating on him when i wasn't! now he knows that i wasnt cheating on him and he told me that he still has a lot of feelings for me. but him being one of my best friendz bf i just told him that i wasnt comfortable with that conversation and why and being the awesome guy he is he totally understood and it wasnt akward or anything. but now he always looks at me differently and flirts with me all the time. sometimes i wish my friend would just get jealous and make him stop but she trusts me so much she doesnt even care that he likes me! what do i do?!? plz help.

first of all leave him the hell alone... it was stupid of your friend to date him right after you two broke up. there is an unspoken protocal about all this. you don't date a bf X if he was the last one, if they were "i love you" close or if she does not yet have a newer, hotter boyfriend. that was really shallow of your friend, especially since she knew that he broke up with you on false terms, a real friend would have stood up for you.

and that "awesome" guy sounds like an *** as well. he's just a wannabe player trying to get the best of both of you. plz dont be played, OPEN UP YOUR EYES deary. i hate to see girls be blindsided by a few bad men and questionable friends.

HE'S FLIRTING WITH YOU? THEN WHY IS THAT JERK STILL WITH YOUR FRIEND??? HE NEEDS TO MOVE ON AND SO DO YOU. HE OBVIOUSLY HAS TRUST ISSUES IF SUSPECTS YOUR CHEATING FOR NO REASON. YOUR FRIEND IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THIS DESPERATE LOSER WHO DATES YOUR FRIENDS. ITS TOO LATE FOR YOU TO TAKE HIM BACK. DON'T CHEAT WITH HIM! JUST QUIT DROOLING OVER HIM AND MOVE ON. I DON'T SEE THE WHOLE POINT OF DATING ANYWAY. MY OPINION.

Okay first of all you can not help who you like...and if it happens to be your best freinds ex then that who it is..it isnt low..now if you freind trust that you wont do anything then u should be happy she trust u liket hat..but i mean if you like him the best thing to do is tell him and then your freind and then see what happens from there

talk to her about it. and after that him. then three of u.

whoa! hold up! your best friend is dating your ex-boyfriend? that's pretty low! tell her how you feel about him.

Just wait. If you don't want to lose your friend, that's what you're gonna have to do. Anyway, did you still have feelings for this guy when yuor friend started going out with him? If so, and she knew it, she isn't that good of a friend.