should a 13 year old have secrets like being pregnant, not wanting a kid, being beat, trying to commit suicide over 20 times, being on her death bed 4 times, and all kinds of other stuff???please answer because i would really really like to know!!

~brittany lyn~

your 13 honey - you shouldn't have dark secrets - you should be free

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Originally posted by kaylaka7:
k 1st uv all im not trin 2 b meen y the heck wer u doin u no wot 2 get pregnant at 13, thatz jus retarded. & 2nd uv all i wuz beet wen i wuz yunger & the way it ended mi parentz got divorced & that wuz only bout 2 years ago but i never tried 2 kill myself. i think u shood jus pray 2 god & ask him 2 help u. & u mite b rolin ur eyes rite now but i asked him 2 divorce mi parentz like bout a week b for mi mom told me she wuz gonna divorce mi dad, coz he beet all 6 uv us & we wer tyerd uv it. it may not hapen az fast fer u az it did fer me but giv the lord sum time & trust him & heel help u out. so turn 2 him, gotta go by

y'know I might agree with you if I could READ what you wrote! sure i cant spell but at least people can read it.

k 1st uv all im not trin 2 b meen y the heck wer u doin u no wot 2 get pregnant at 13, thatz jus retarded. & 2nd uv all i wuz beet wen i wuz yunger & the way it ended mi parentz got divorced & that wuz only bout 2 years ago but i never tried 2 kill myself. i think u shood jus pray 2 god & ask him 2 help u. & u mite b rolin ur eyes rite now but i asked him 2 divorce mi parentz like bout a week b for mi mom told me she wuz gonna divorce mi dad, coz he beet all 6 uv us & we wer tyerd uv it. it may not hapen az fast fer u az it did fer me but giv the lord sum time & trust him & heel help u out. so turn 2 him, gotta go by

i think anyone can have deep dark secrets as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. there are lots of times when ppl consider leaving this life but i mean if ur serious about it orbeing pregnant or being beat, u should tell SOMEONE. a counselor, friend, police, heck call the girls and boys hotline. plus as a teen the slightest thing causes you to go off and i'm guessing (hoping) it gets better as you get older.
just remember no matter what: success is the greatest revenge.

I believ its normal . Im going thro the smae thing ! BUT U do need ot tell @ least one perosn . Im going to a ocuncelor at skool . if that works do it . I advise u Dont tell ur Parents UNLESS U know they wouldnt hurt U !

~Jitt'rZ~!

to everyone that thinks condoms will keep u from getting pregnant ur wrong the only thing that does is abstinance. if u wanna have sex go ahead but u gotta no the facts. i was born on birth control, my friend got pregnent with a condon and birth control.

no one should have deep dark secrets. there's always someone u can talk to. if someone is being beaten that shouldn't bbe a secret, that should be reported to either the police or social services. if someones pregnant i understand if u can't tell ur parents but tell the dad, tell a friend for support and atleast one responsible adult that can help you figure out wat step to take to improve your life, and how to handle the situation

to the girl who is pregnant.
you should deffinatley tell your parents everything.
if they wont support you, find someone that will.
you could get the guy who did this to you in trouble..which is good so that he coulld not do this to another young girls.
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good luck.

Having a kid when your 13 isnt exactly the wisest thing to do but whats done is done. Your gonna have to deal with it. Dont abandon your kid like alot of mothers do. Plus make sure the braindead prick that couldnt figure out how to use a condom sticks around too. As for being beaten, theres no reason you should keep that a secret. Tell someone and make sure whoevers doing the beating get some beatings themselves.

Its a mystery to me how somebody can try to commit suicide 20 times and not succeed. You dont seem to have an easy life but who the hell does. Thats the way the world works, its not easy. Id say weve all considered killing ourselves once in a while, only advice I can give you is toughen up and youll get through the shitty days. Soon enough youll be laughing at the fact you wanted to kill yourself.

If your 13 you really, (as much as you think you do) don't know what your doing. When your 13 you have a lot of things going through your head. I don't think that 13 yr olds should have the burden of "deep dark secrets" Your teens are a time of having fun not worrying about killing yourself!

i guess depends on who you ask. if you ask me, i think it would be better for her to use her head, not get laid, and stop being a coward.

When your 13, you shouldn't be having dark secrets. Life should be an adventure... going from a child to a teen.

It not right for 13 yrs to keep a deep and dark secrets. if you doing something that is wrong and that can hurt you should tell someone and try to get help because it would be better to know early than later. talk to someone about it and get it off you mind

i dont neccessarily think a 13 year old should hide things like that becuz the are so young and in reality it can be so dangerous to hide things such as pregnancy and drug abuse becuz the people who you think will judge you that you are hiding it from are the people who are usually there to help

let the thread die already.

I don't think 'Do what you know in your heart is right' would be the best advice here. But when it comes to things like pregancy and suicide...SEEK HELP! It doesn't matter what age you are...SEEK HELP from your parents and peers. You'd be amazed what they know and how they can help.

most of the time when people keep secrets like that they cant hide them for very long. i couldnt when i got pregnant at 13. and that was soooo hard for me because my mom was an abusive *****

huh?

Heh.