about 2 years ago...i was sexually molested at my friends house...we both were...we didn't telll because we didn't want to loose eachother but a year ago we broke the silence...in fact, it was a year ago on the 13th of this month...its taken over a year just to go through the papers...the judge is only gonna put the man who did this to my friend and i behind bars for 4 and a half months with parole..i think this is crap!@ the abuse was going on for over 3years!!! what do you guys think i should do?it need to be longer i think...

luv,
Shay

I don't know what to tell you, except that I'm praying for you. If you EVER want to talk, email me. You don't deserve any of this, no one could ever do anything to deserve it. Legally, I'm not sure what you can do, maybe a school counselor or someone could direct you to a good lawyer, who could at least discuss things with you, even if there's nothing more you can do. At least that way, you would know you've done everything you can. Also, sometimes helping other people through the same kind of pain can help you get through your own. You can turn even this into something that works out for good. Of course what happended was horrible, but maybe you can help make sure it doesn't happen to anyone else. Love and prayers, Jennifer.

ur an ******* that need to shut the **** up cuz it isnt a sympathy thread she is looking for help and jesus christ you think everything is a sypathy thred i mean i know the difference and i am totally ****ed up or at least i was till u started talking all this ****!!! so do me a favor and SHUT UP! bie

~brittany lyn~

Actually Gemie, I think this is more of an advice on what to do more than a sympathy thread. However, I mostly get things confuse so I might be wrong.

I'm sorry!!!!!

Bye n Have a nice day

Geezus, another sympathy-forum.

i was too baby gurl. i am soooo sorry he only go 4 months, esp since you were brave enough to tell someone.

my guy didn't even go to jail, he was rich and he paid off the judge. talk about justice. his family also was very well in with the politics. they ruined the tape recordings of me tellin what he did to me to the investegators. i was younger, alot younger and scared. so i didn't talk again when he hired his own investagators. he ruined me and my mom.

i have never heard from him again....too bad he was my father.

stay strong. after what happend to me i am so determined to help kids, i am gonna become a pediatric surgeon, but also have a minor in physcology, i want to catch the signs of abuse. i don't want another kid to go through it.

good luck in life. i hope you find justice.

maybe you can become a judge and stop people like him

~*FOXY*~

Teddy, you did not deserve it. You are a good person, and you would never deserve something like that. No one does. To say you deserved it and that it didn't affect you is to say it SERIOUSLY affected you. You just shouldn't buy into the hate. People here do care for you.

I found this web page all about the laws having to do with sexual assualt. if you scroll down, you will see some things on child molestation. i read through those, and it turns out that, since ur 15, the person is guilty of CHILD molest, just rape. unless your friend is 14 or under. talk to your lawyer about why this guy isnt doing more time. ask them to explain it to you. you have the right to know whats going on in YOUR sexual assault case! good luck, keep us posted!

Look for a new strategy...Thats not working...What you need is solid evidence...of what the molester did to you and your friend...He is going to be out again...right. Well it is said that once somone starts doing something they can never just quit. So..the person will probably molest other teens just like you...You need solid evidence...Maybe a picture..of the person molesting somone else...or a video. Because today..justice isn't that easy..confessions are only a small proof of evidence...these days. which is sad. You need proof undeniable proof and I am pretty confident that you'll put that molester in jail forver. Good Luck.

that's so awful. i'm sorry. i aked my mom why that guy only got 4 months and she said that's the law. the law sucks. i hope u get help. i clicked on youthforyouth.org and loveourchildrenusa.org ... they're really cool sites with lots of helpful information.

good luck!

This is so sad. All these stories have me near tears. I'm so sorry for all of you, I really am. All my prayers and love to you guys.

First and foremost, I don't care what you did, NO BODY DESERVES hate, pain, abuse, neglect or anything to make them feel unwanted or unworthy of attention and love.

I do not think it is fair for him to get only 4 months WITH parole. That's ludicrous. I don't know, man. Get a better attorney or something because 4 months... jees. I'm sure you're all aware of the danger you're going to be in 4 months later from now. Dang that's so horrible. I pray for a miracle there and with Teddy.

Teddy you dont deserve to be raped. I was like kidnaped by some weird drunk guy that tried to rape me...yeah i am kinda afraid of guys now. like if im at walmart...and guys follow me around...i run looking for my mommy cause it scares me to death. and i dont like when strangers or my parents male friends talk to me...it scares me to death. and this boy that really likes me, and i like him, he asked me out but i havent gave him an answer, im afraid he will try to do soemthing to me, but i dont think he would. hes a church boy...but im just kinda freaked...im such a freak! i think im going to say yes though..

that guy should be in bars for triple the time he harrassed you

Teddy...
honey u don't deserve 2 be raped!!!! NO1 DESERVES IT, NO1!!!! I thought the same thing u did when I was raped... IT'S NOT TRUE!!!! Why do u think u derserve that abuse... that crap? Why? I'm not trying to be nosy, but u don't deserve that! U don't derserve the bad only the good thats how it is for everyone (unless they did something bad,like rape). Ok, don't balme urself for something u didn't want. U sound just like me when I was raped, sexualy assulted & when my mom & grandma died. If u ever want to talk about anything post me or e-mail me,ok?

Teddy Hope ur operation went well, I hate operations!


And that guy that molested u should have life in prision!


SoccerChick13

My best friend and i were so dissapointed when we didn't get to se "him" go away in handcuffs...but the bailiffs set us both copies of hus mug shots! it was so funny! i carried em in my wallet for a week showing every body i saw and telling them what happened to "him" it was so funny...i i could, i would post them all for you to see, but i'm not quite sure how if if i can...lol well, c ya all later!.

Love Shay

Anshi, well, I'm happy for you!!!!!!!

I wish you well in everything and anything you do!!!!!!!!!

Bye N Have a nice day

on the 26th, we went to court, he got 120 days on a sex offenders unit and 5 years parole. if he messes up even once, he gets locked up for 28 years, we wanted to see hi in handcuffs, but he gott 2 hours to "close his affairs" so the bailiffs sent both my fereind and i copies of his mug shots...yay!
thanks for your support!
Shay

I'm a bit.. lost.

Just forget it okay?

Bye n Have a nice day