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You people have your morals messed up! Why do you think there is such a high divorce rate. People not obeying God's commands. hello, people who move in together or have sex before they are married are more likley to get divorced than those who wait. If you look back to when our parents were younger, the divorce rate is lower. Part of the reason is b/c people had morals and waited to they were married. ya ya its your choice... thats crap... You are breaking one of God's commands and I am sure you are thinking well there is no God or something like that. Reply to this post and I will be happy to give you reasons as to why I know God and Jesus exist and why the Bible is true! The only kind of safe sex is no sex! true true!

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leave god out of your posts, would you?

anyhow, premarital sex doesnt affect your divorce rate, divorce comes by affars, economic reasons, and simply being tired of your partners.

and another thing, just because you have premarital sex doesnt mean you live with the person.

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it attches people in bad ways! u give a piece of yourself to that person...and when you break up its painful. time and love fall hand in hand. time bonds things. the more time you spend with someone, the truer your love may get. besides, if you love someone and respect them, you dont need to have sex until you are married. that way, no one gets hurt in the first place. and nothin wrong can happen then!

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wrong. it doesnt thurt to break up with the person you slept with most of the time (because when you break up, you dont have feeelings for them anymore).

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We should live by God's morals... but most people live by their own.. my morals aree God's morals.. ok well to start off with the Bible, have u ever read it? if u haven't u should.. and I know its true because of things like the Bible has scientific knowlege before its time.. non Christian Roman historians agree with it..and how would you explain there isn't a God? u think the world created itself? that's contradictory how can something come from nothing.. evolution is one big contrdictory story.. do u think that if u put all the contents of a watch in a bag and shake it u will get a watch.. NO! and do u thik that if u put nothing in a bag and shake it you will get a watch.. once again.. NO! this would bring me ot the design argument.. i have two premises and a conclusion. 1st premise.. intellegent design needs an intelligent designer.. premise 2: the universe has intellegent design.. therefore(conclusion) the universe has and intelligent designer.. like umm GOD!

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I agree with yogore on this. Right now, I'm not going to tell you my beliefs, but say you needed to convince me there is NO OTHER alternative. Explain

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I will be happy to give you reasons as to why I know God and Jesus exist and why the Bible is true!

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with more reasons and more facts.

Jesusfreak, so you believe that the world was created in 7 days? Tell me how that is possible when dinosaurs lived for a much longer time than a few days. So you don't believe anything that they teach you in science classes?

And how can you expect everyone to live by your God's rules? Not everyone is christian so how can you blame divorce rates on them not believinging in your God?

And if God really doesn't like it, how come he doesn't change it?

And please explain how the bible has advanced scientific facts in it.

And the world didn't create itself. It's called evolution. matter congregating and forming large masses. It's really quite logical unlike someone "poofing" something into existance.

We should live by God's morals... but most people live by their own.. my morals aree God's morals.. ok well to start off with the Bible, have u ever read it? if u haven't u should.. and I know its true because of things like the Bible has scientific knowlege before its time.. non Christian Roman historians agree with it..and how would you explain there isn't a God? u think the world created itself? that's contradictory how can something come from nothing.. evolution is one big contrdictory story.. do u think that if u put all the contents of a watch in a bag and shake it u will get a watch.. NO! and do u thik that if u put nothing in a bag and shake it you will get a watch.. once again.. NO! this would bring me ot the design argument.. i have two premises and a conclusion. 1st premise.. intellegent design needs an intelligent designer.. premise 2: the universe has intellegent design.. therefore(conclusion) the universe has and intelligent designer.. like umm GOD!

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Part of the reason is b/c people had morals and waited to they were married.

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The other part being they were afraid they'd be ostracised by society.

By the way, I know I've asked this before, but I'm asking it again: Whose morals do we live by?

Give me the proof about Jesus, God, and the Bible. I'm intrigued now.

You people have your morals messed up! Why do you think there is such a high divorce rate. People not obeying God's commands. hello, people who move in together or have sex before they are married are more likley to get divorced than those who wait. If you look back to when our parents were younger, the divorce rate is lower. Part of the reason is b/c people had morals and waited to they were married. ya ya its your choice... thats crap... You are breaking one of God's commands and I am sure you are thinking well there is no God or something like that. Reply to this post and I will be happy to give you reasons as to why I know God and Jesus exist and why the Bible is true! The only kind of safe sex is no sex! true true!

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*groan* I took Sex ed. I don't need it again. Like I said, I know the protection is not 100% safe, I never said it was, but 75% is alot better than 0%.

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Condoms aren't effective at all against HPV (human papilloma virus) or syphillis. HPV is commonly called gential warts, and many doctors and health teachers downplay the severity of HPV because it is not a deadly STD. It can't be cured, although lasers can be used to burn the warts off, leaving irreparable scars. (Even if you've had the laser treatment you can still spread it) HPV causes cervical cancer. 90% of cervical cancer cases are attributed to HPV. Which means that women who have HPV are likely to become sterile. Most people with gential warts don't know they have them.

Syphillis also causes contagious sores on areas that a condom can't cover.

I personally think that it is a personal decision that everyone has to make. If you think your ready to have sex with someone or people. There is nothing that anyone can say or do to stop you. I just think that like every other decision that has to be made jus make sure that you are ready and can handle the consequences financially, emotinally, physically, mentally, and socially. Whether it be a disease, a baby or just that extra emotional attachment.

once you're married you can still divorce. It's the same as having premarital sex there is a chance that thisd relationship won't last forever. Just look at the divorce rate.

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Originally posted by cherrycokebt:
it attches people in bad ways! u give a piece of yourself to that person...and when you break up its painful. time and love fall hand in hand. time bonds things. the more time you spend with someone, the truer your love may get. besides, if you love someone and respect them, you dont need to have sex until you are married. that way, no one gets hurt in the first place. and nothin wrong can happen then!

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there is no such this as "nothing can go wrong" cuz everything can go wrong in a second....james is getting in a bad mood for some reason....hes going to take off now...bye bye

it attches people in bad ways! u give a piece of yourself to that person...and when you break up its painful. time and love fall hand in hand. time bonds things. the more time you spend with someone, the truer your love may get. besides, if you love someone and respect them, you dont need to have sex until you are married. that way, no one gets hurt in the first place. and nothin wrong can happen then!

In my opinion, I think people should wait to have sex until they get married. I say that you only get one virginity but boyfriends and girlfriends come and go.

I belive that pre-maital sex is good and bad. There are a few things that could happen: pregnancy, STD's, broken relaationship...or, for the good, it could make your relationship stronger, like it did mine..but make sure that you are well protected...if you and your partner are both virgins when you first do it, then you don't have to worry about a sexually transmitted disease (as much)...love is a powerful feeling, and if it true love, then having sex should not be important to either person. If you do have sex, please be careful...a lot could happen, bad or good, so make sure it's worth the risk.

y is every1 so interested in this sex aint like killin sum1 i mean god use protection it feels good how could it possibly hurt u emotionally

I think sex is fine aslong as it is safe and your in love.

I think that pre marital sex is fine, just as long as your not being pressured or rushed into it. I myself am waiting until I find someone I would be comfortable having sex with.

I support abstinence because no protection is 100% effective and you dont want to end up pregnant or w/ an STD... perfect ways to screw up or end your life... And the pleasure only lasts for 1 night

My religious beliefs are not strict about sex, and I don't think anything is wrong with premarital sex, whether or not you love the person you are doing it with, though I do recommend having deep feeling for the first time you have sex.

~Kitty

1 Corinthians 6: 12-20....

It's a decision only you should make. You shouldn't be pressured into sex because you know your friends are doing it, and you shouldn't do it because your boyfriend will break up with you if you don't. Those aren't reasons. It's all about you and what you want to do. If you feel comfortable and you are ready to understand what may happen if you have sex...then that's your decision.