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Sometimes waiting is a good thing.


Bull$h!t! Why wait when you can get some right now. Besides if you wait you can still get an std.

"It doesn't make me a better person, but it does make more pure, as in sexually pure. "

Untrue. I know many girls who are proclaimed "virgins" (if you consider virginity to be broken only by heterosexual vaginal intercours;e I have al ot of beef with what virginity is) that are much nastier than some people who have sex. Like I know a guy who isn't a virgin, but doesn't swear or say bad words, doesn't think "naughty thoughts" and doesn't concern himself much with sex. But there are people who do everything but intercourse, with many people, thinking it's okay as long as they're "virgins".

How pure are you, exactly? Had oral sex? Do you swear? Do you drink? have you fooled around with someone? Kissed? There's no such thing as "pure", really. We're all tainted (unless you're living on that TV show 7th Heaven. I find htat show a bit disturbing even though I'll watch it if it comes on)

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Its a fact that out of every 3 partners you get a STD.

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Isn't it "one in three people will have an STD"? It's not the same thing.

I think its fine because if u don't have premarital sex before u get married i think it might ruin your whole relationship. because u married who ever and u find out that its not the best thing in the whole. But to your spouse its fine. So, you might have a hard time tellin him/her about how u feel. That's what i think!

I think that it is wrong to have premarital sex. I know that you canget AIDS and things like that even when you are married but are you really going to test every guy you sleep with before you get married to "Mr. Right"? I don't think so. There is also the factor of getting pregenant. If you are sleeping with some one just to sleep with them and you get pregenant most likely you are stuck taking care of the child by yourself and have to drop out of school. Even if you are having "protected sex" you can still get pregenant. I really don't think that there is any sure way that you won't get pregenant if you are just sleeping around. and birth control pills and condoms don't protect you from HIV and AIDS do they? No. So there is no such thing as protected sex.

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You wont marry him, just because he's not a virgin anymore? And how in this world would you know if they really are a virgin? Because they said they were? Come on you know a lot of guys will say things like that just to get in bed with a girl (even if they want to marry that girl).

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Yes the scam of religion, it is ok for men, who will ever know? They can say some kind words to God, ask to be forgiven...and boom...it's all good. But girls..oh no!! We will know...we will not marry you even if we have been having sex all along...WE WANT VIRGINS!!! According to the Bible you would be stoned to death, today you are just unmarriable...either way...a slave.

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Anyway, I don't want to marry a man who's already had sex, because I want to share it with him and only him, and I want to be the first woman he's ever had sex with. Don't tell me there aren't any, cause I know plenty of them.

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So what if the man you fall in-love with and want to marry isnt a virgin anymore? You wont marry him, just because he's not a virgin anymore? And how in this world would you know if they really are a virgin? Because they said they were? Come on you know a lot of guys will say things like that just to get in bed with a girl (even if they want to marry that girl).
I think the right time to have sex is when your ready, and are prepared to handle the consequences, of what might happen. And whether your married or not it dosent mean that you cant still get and STD, or get pregnant. So you run the same risks whether your married or not.
ByE bYE

Sometimes living...You can get STD's...Its a fact that out of every 3 partners you get a STD. Or you can get someone pregnant/or get pregnant....Sometimes waiting is a good thing.

Look I think all this crap about people should wait until they're married, or in love to have sex is absolute bull$h!t. Why should you have to wait around you're whole life to experience the greatest pleasure life has to offer. You only live once. Live life to the fullest and have fun if you can. Sex does not have to be an act of love. Its just lust and pleasure. And its a human physical desire. What are we supposed to do, just ignore it and say, nah I'd rather wait around indefinitely my whole life, because there are people who never get married. So whats that to say, there should be 50 and 60 year old virgins? Come on gimme a break.

iv had sex and im not married but i think you should wait because thats why i am pregnant because i didnt wait!

~brittany lyn~

it's up to you. personally i don't care, just do what you want to and remember the consequences.

a lot of the taboo placed on premarital sex comes from a fear of the maturity of the people having sex. so ppl worry about if the guy would be a good father if they end up with a child, are either of them smart enough to be open about stds... fear is also aroused by the fear that not beign married, if the girl did get pregant, she might get an abortion which is a big deal for many of the same religious communities that condone premarital sex

ICM!! DA' MAN!

You are going to live once, live it like it's your last day!

my motto

I think what goes on between 2 ppl behind closed doors is nobody's business.

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You could get pregnant, diseases the whole nine.

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Right, because when you're married, any STD that you might have been born with, disappears and the man's sperm just dies so that the couple is unable to get pregnant.

Premarital sex is wrong because like many have said before you should want to save yourself for your husband or wife. You could get pregnant, diseases the whole nine. So why put your body through that. But people have there own way so do whatever you think is right even though it may be wrong.

It doesn't make me a better person, but it does make more pure, as in sexually pure.

Well then don't have sex before you get married, but stop trying to convince people who are having sex to stop having sex. Life Lesson #3081: Teenagers are going to have sex. Deal with it. But stop feeling like you're better than people who have had sex just because you're a virgin. That doesn't make you any more pure, spiritual, or superior than the rest of us. It means you have an unbroken hymen, and that's pretty much it.

“It is an infantile superstition of the human spirit that virginity would be thought a virtue and not the barrier that separates ignorance from knowledge.”
-Voltaire

It would be wrong because you're giving a part of you away to someone you might not marry. Anyway, I don't want to marry a man who's already had sex, because I want to share it with him and only him, and I want to be the first woman he's ever had sex with. Don't tell me there aren't any, cause I know plenty of them.

Why would it be a mistake if you had sex with someone if they weren't "the one"?

In my opinion you should wait until you are married, even if you already love the guy/girl, I mean it could be a mistake, 'cause you CAN fall in love with someone that isn't exactly the ONE, you know, so I'd say wait until it's the HONEY MOON!