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Whatever you think I'll have something to share with my husband on our wedding night and you won't.

I don't care if you agree with what I do. The fact of the matter is, since I do have sex, I know more about it than you do, and I know if you're wrong, which you were. Don't be a sore loser.

No, you're just more "experienced", somethin that I don't agree with and you know it. So, whatever.

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I'm sure you know more about sex than me, but so what???

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So I know that you're wrong and I'm right.

I'm sure you know more about sex than me, but so what??? I don't believe that you have to have
"sexual chemistry" right from the start. I think you should learn together, at least that's what I plan on doing.

Riiight. iluvjp, that's naive. Sex doesn't work that way. You don't learn to have sexual chemistry. You either have it with a person or don't. And don't argue with me on this one. You're a virgin, therefore I know more about sex and sexual chemistry than you do.

You don't have to have "sexual chemistry." If you get married and haven't had sex, the two of you will learn together and will appreciate and love each other more because you haven't shared it with anybody else.

husband or wife, srry, my bad

in my opinion the only reason that only having sex once married is a good thing is because it is always a possibility that you might get pregnet and no child should have to grow up with out a father. if the man and woman are not in love during intercourse then chances are that they will not stay together the length of the pregnancy and then through out the child's life. but then again if you do not have sex until after you are married then how are you to know if you and your husband have sexual chemistry? don't you think it would suck if you got married then you and your husband didn't have sexual chemistry? i think it would. but that's just me. it's your choice if you want to have sex before your married. i can't make that choice for you. but i was just stating my opinion...
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Amaris,

I don't know.........I'm just guessing here because I was ONCE an Christian. However, I'm pretty much an idiot so I could be totally wrong.

Bye n Have a nice day

But you can't usually control your dreams, so why should you have to ask forgiveness for them?

look, we all sin, are we not all sinners? yes we are.having impure thought about the opposite sex is normal.then we ask for forgiveness.

you see what is wrong in my perspective is when you go all the way to fornicate.so literally sex before marriage is wrong 'cause you and your the partner are not yet one.as in together.

you know l wonder sometimes that if you don't try it before marriage,how are you going to know it well during marriage.Now nough said.

I think it works like this Amaris.

If you have a dream about sex or any impure thoughts then you need to ask God for forgiveness and God will clean you from your sins.

Am I correct?

Now would not having thoughts about having sex with the opposite sex make you a homosexual?

I don't think so, it will make you pure in God's eyes though. Well, not pure but you know it will make God see that your following and stuff. So you basically haven't committed a sin in that area which the area is sex.

Now if you do stop thinking of sex with the opposite sex but start thinking of sex with the same sex then you basically committed two sins in one act.

Meaning: One sin of lust and one sin of homosexuality

I don't know if I'm correct about this though.

Bye n Have a nice day

Wait. So it is unpure to even want to have sex before marriage? So if you have a dream about having sex while being unmarried, that's a sin? I think that is the stupidest ****ing thing I've ever heard. And if you don't have thoughts about having sex with the opposite sex, wouldn't that make you a homosexual, which is also a sin?

I hope to Goddess that I am wrong, and that someone will correct me.

I don't believe that things like pornography and maasturbation are sins becasue of the Bible talking about fornication. I believe they are sins because the Bible says that we should not have impure thoughts or lust.

James 1:15
"Than when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death."

All of us will die and all of us will sin, but if you're not saved you will go to hell. As Christians, we should strive to live for the Lord and avoid sin and things that tempt us to sin. If you're not saved, really, the Biblical commands do not apply to you because if you're not saved, you won't be judged for your individual sins as Christians will. So, the point I'm trying to make is, unless you're saved, there really can be nothing morally wrong with premarital sex.

The Greek words "pornea" (often translated "fornication") is key terms used to refer to sexual sins in the Christian Scriptures (New Testament). They appear dozens of times, particularly in the writings attributed to Paul, who concentrated a great deal on sexual sins. Unfortunately, diverse Christian groups have very different definitions of these words.

By simply defining the words in a narrow or wide sense, one can totally change the meaning of the Bible.

The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition defines "fornication" simply as: "Sexual intercourse between partners who are not married to each other."

This dictionary also discusses the origin of the world. "Fornication" came from The Latin word "fornix," from which "fornicti," the ancestor of fornication, is derived. It meant a vault, an arch. The term also referred to a vaulted cellar or similar place where prostitutes plied their trade.

Strong's Concordance gives 19th century meanings to Greek and Hebrew words found in the Bible. "Pornea," in Biblical times, used literally, included three activities: prostitution, adultery and incest.

However, most conservative Christian churches have greatly expanded the English term "fornication." It is to them a catchall term. It now includes: premarital sex, orgies, masturbation, oral sex, fetishes, anything to do with pornography, 'improper' thoughts about the opposite sex, homosexuality, and just about any other sexual sin you could think of.

While some of these things are 'sin', this is a gross misuse of the word fornication. Some conservative churches and ministries even extend the definition of "pornea" to include masturbation.

I would say the wide diversity of opinion is a strong case that what constitues a sin depends on who you are, who taught you, and which branch of the religion you follow. There is no concrete belief that loving and committed sexual relaitonships are sinful.
Especially given the awful state of marriage these days when so many fail, it would seem logical to say that what counts is not a piece of paper or a vow said in haste, but where your heart and mind lie when making the decision.

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Amaris, I'd have to say that you are very uneducated.

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Why thank you!

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God did not get Mary pregnant.

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How do you know? Does it say so in your precious book? I mean, God commanded the murder of pregnant women, and their wombs to be slashed open, so why would he not knock a virgin up?

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Mary was a virgin, she gave birth to Jesus.

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Gee, that made sense.

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God gave the baby to Mary

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What do you mean he gave her he baby? Explain, please. Remember, I'm uneducated.

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but they never had inercourse. That's not possible.

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Actually, I agree with you on that because I have no idea what the **** "inercourse" is.

Now, please, enlighten me.

1 Corinthians 7:1-2
"Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication (premarital sex),let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband."

1 Thessalonians 4:3
"For this is the will of God, even you sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication."

Where is this bible verse that condemns premarital sex?